Breakup and Death

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I've lurked here for awhile, researching wasy to get my ex back. We dated

for three years and broke up 4 months ago, but kept in casual contact.

 

I've read on here that people think death is easier to deal with than a

breakup.

 

Well, my ex was killed yesterday in a car accident by a drunk driver. 34

years old. Highly gifted teacher and musician. Loved by everyone she

knew. And loved very deeply by me.

 

So, from first hand experience I can tell you breakup's are much easier than

death. Seeing a crumpled car on the news, and then a picture of your ex

is completely devastating. Words cannot really describe it.

 

It put's breakups in perspective. It's hard, but it doesn't compare to losing

them forever in a horrible tragedy like this. She deserved a very long and

happy life like everyone else.

 

Please don't ever drink and drive, or let anyone else do it.