Last night when I talked to them again, they both called me a f**kin slut!

[Tim'sAngel]

Vi, sorry this has gotten off topic. I dont feel like i have called you names or put you down, but if you think I have, I apologize. I really hope you realize how beautiful and worthy of respect you are and stop these men from treating you like trash. I think we as women have to work hard for respect since we are thrown around magazines and movies as nothing more than a body w/some boobs and a vagina.

[Craig]

When I read the op's first post I really didn't know what to say and then just now it hit me--what we have here folks is a failure to communicate. LOL.

 

An omission of fact(s) that would be important to someone you are seeing is, well, a lie by omission.

 

Doesn't that sum up why the two guys are somewhat disturbed by the op's behavior? Or did I miss something?

[cuddlycuddlebum]

Seeing two guys at once? Looks like you finally got what you deserved. Don't expect me to feel sorry for you.

[vi_pn_babe25]

Seeing two guys at once? Looks like you finally got what you deserved. Don't expect me to feel sorry for you.

 

WTF?!! Don't say something like that on my post when I tried to help you on your post. I never said anything bad about you, just about the guy that you are seeing. You're in a similar situation with a guy disrespecting you, SO check yourself first before you say anything to me again.

[vi_pn_babe25]

Vi' date=' sorry this has gotten off topic. I dont feel like i have called you names or put you down, but if you think I have, I apologize. I really hope you realize how beautiful and worthy of respect you are and stop these men from treating you like trash. I think we as women have to work hard for respect since we are thrown around magazines and movies as nothing more than a body w/some boobs and a vagina.[/quote']

 

I've always welcomed your advice, so no need to apologize. Like I've said before, I'm willing to listen to anyone's replies as long as it doesn't turn into a joke, like some people on here tried to make it. And as long as it's not destructive criticism.

I've just been going through a hard time lately and it's hard to get out of that hole, and I don't know why but I'm slowly working on it.

[vi_pn_babe25]

I'm off this thread guys..

 

If you go back and read the post where she got back after posting the original thread you will see that your ADVICE has had a negative impact on her not a positive one..

 

you guys were just plain too hard on her without hearing any input from her

 

Therefore your advice wasn't advice.. it was criticism..

 

Thanks again Art_Critic. I appreciate your time, help and support. Especially risking yourself by defending me. I hope you have a good day

[Tim'sAngel]

I've always welcomed your advice, so no need to apologize. Like I've said before, I'm willing to listen to anyone's replies as long as it doesn't turn into a joke, like some people on here tried to make it. And as long as it's not destructive criticism.

I've just been going through a hard time lately and it's hard to get out of that hole, and I don't know why but I'm slowly working on it.

 

We all go through hard times, but we should not ever EVER let anyone define who we are. From what I've read in your past posts, one of these men is into drugs. You do realize that this alone will ruin your rep. And the other I dont know much about, but they both seem to be leading you on. One thing about men (that I really hate) is that once you introduce sex to the relationship, its a one way street, and its very easy to screw things up if your not careful. Think about it like this, what would you do if u were seeing this really cute guy that you really liked, and all the sudden you find out he is sleeping w/this other girl that you don't really care much for. Wouldn't you feel al little betrayed and somewhat used? Men do have feelings too, and don't you know that you crushed both of there egos, hence "slut" and whatever else they called you. Now, IMO, you don't really have a shot at a successful relationship w/either of these men (or boys should I say), even if they were respectible citizens. And hunny why would you? They have called you names, dealt with illegal substances, spread rumors... It has just gone too far now. I really hope you make the right decision and leave these men be. There are so many other respectable men out there that will take you out to nice restaurants, wine and dine you, buy you flowers and never make you feel used but instead make you feel beautiful, sexy, and respected. And they are out there, cuz I found one ;-)

[Vertex]

I've decided to become a druggie.

[Tim'sAngel]

I've decided to become a druggie.

 

 

Hmm, that was random

[Vertex]

Crap I posted in the wrong thread. Gahhh.

 

It wasn't random in context, I promise

[Tim'sAngel]

Crap I posted in the wrong thread. Gahhh.

 

It wasn't random in context, I promise

 

Uh huh... suuuure

[Vertex]

Haha, I assure you I'm not *actually* going to become a druggie.

 

As for this thread, uh, you guys should just get along. Yeah.

[Tim'sAngel]

Haha, I assure you I'm not *actually* going to become a druggie.

 

As for this thread, uh, you guys should just get along. Yeah.

 

Ur silly

[Vertex]

You're... a seraphim of Timothy. Yeaaa

[Lishy]

VI is in a bad place at the moment and needs some guidence! I just hope she will take the advice she is given!

 

Vi honey, get away from these losers ... you know you can do it girl!

 

I have said it before and I will say it again babe, you need to respect yourself before any guy will respect you!

 

These guys will always see you as the girl who sleeps with 2 guys at the same time and they will never respect or trust you so get yaself out and meet a guy who will! You really deserve it babe!

 

Chin up babe ... You will look back at this one day and see it for what it is and what doesnt kill you makes you stronger!

[Vertex]

Vi, if you're still around I'll take you on a date No disrespectin' here

 

 

By the way everyone I just finished eating a piece of chicken I cooked. I will miss it so... *goes off to eat more*

[Tim'sAngel]

Vi, if you're still around I'll take you on a date No disrespectin' here

 

 

By the way everyone I just finished eating a piece of chicken I cooked. I will miss it so... *goes off to eat more*

 

Um, vert baby, are you sure ur not a druggie? I could swear u been smokin sumthin

[Lishy]

Be careful of bird flu I hear it makes you say the weirdest s***!

[Vertex]

Birds... did I... oh no. Did I forget to cook...

 

Impossible... I feel just fine!

 

*dances* Naaaahhhh svenyaaaaaaaa babaviiiiiichibabaaaaaaaa, mmbaalaaa yeaaaaaa

[Touche]

Be careful of bird flu I hear it makes you say the weirdest s***!

 

Can you get bird flu from cooked chicken? I grilled some chicken tonight.

[Lishy]

Touche you will be fine hon .... Only men get bird flu, women just get bird colds and carry on regardless!

 

I think Vertex has mad cows disease anyway! (either that or he is smoking too many doobies)

[Touche]

Touche you will be fine hon .... Only men get bird flu, women just get bird colds and carry on regardless!

 

I think Vertex has mad cows disease anyway! (either that or he is smoking too many doobies)

 

Ha! You're funny, Lish!

[Vertex]

Mad cow?! Do you imply my brain has become hole-ridden sponge matter?!

 

Oh sweet jesus there is another spider in my room, I am so sick of those large mammals. It stopped calling.

[johan]

Can you get bird flu from cooked chicken?

 

The answer is yes.

[Touche]

The answer is yes.

 

Seriously? I didn't know. Well, if I'm not on here anymore you'll know what happened to me. But my chicken came out SO good that it might be worth it!