Last night when I talked to them again, they both called me a f**kin slut!

[Lishy]

yes u can catch it from cooked chicken hon!

 

If you start growing feathers and clucking get to a quack quick!

[Tim'sAngel]

Seriously? I didn't know. Well, if I'm not on here anymore you'll know what happened to me. But my chicken came out SO good that it might be worth it!

 

You will be missed Touche!! Fare thee well my fellow virgo

[beautifulnpink22]

Oh please some guys do this all the time with not a care in the world. And like you said you weren't in a relationship with neither of them, so what's the big deal?

[Tim'sAngel]

Oh please some guys do this all the time with not a care in the world. And like you said you weren't in a relationship with neither of them, so what's the big deal?

 

Yes, guys do contract bird flu often, but I didn't know they didn't care... o wait... she was actually posting about the OP

[johan]

Thanks again Art_Critic. I appreciate your time, help and support. Especially risking yourself by defending me. I hope you have a good day

 

Art was a knight in a past life. I just know it. Anyone want to bet he has a round table?

[Vertex]

Round...

 

x^2+y^2

[blue636]

I've been seeing 2 different guys that I met last November. Although they both know each other from highschool, they were never really friends. From time to time, they cross each other's paths because they live in the same area and hang out at the same places. I've always liked one more than the other, and I've made it pretty clear to the one I like. BUT we never have stated that we're officially bf/gf. So I never could really figure out if he really liked me like that. Anyways, the other guy has told me he wants me to be his gf but I've been honest with him, and kinda stalled the potential relationship with him because I like the other guy more.

Well last Friday, they were at the same house (I wasn't there) and I heard that they were talking about me. The guy that I liked told the other guy, "I don't know why she's calling me because I kinda yelled at her last week" Unfortunately it's true, he had called me a slut because he found out that I was also seeing the other guy. Well wtf..if I'm not his gf then I can see whoever I want. So last time I talked to him, I asked him why he called me a slut,(they actually have both called me a slut) and then the conversation ended with him telling me that he'd call me when he gets back into town. Well I hadn't heard from him, so that's when I called him. Well I just saw the guy (the one I don't like as much as the other) and he said that the one I like lost his phone. But that night they were together, I called them both, and they told each other that I had called both of them! OOPS...So now I don't know what he (the guy I like) thinks, and I don't want to keep calling if he's lost interest in me, but he shouldn't be so mad because we weren't officially bf/gf. And I don't understand why I get called a slut when I'm not bf/gf with neither one of them, if i'm not together with someone I can do whatever I want right? Anyways, the guy that I like, always brags to the other guy that I call him and that I always want to hang out with him, but now it seems like it's changed. And I want the guy that I like back, but I don't know how to approach it now. Should I just ask him flat out, if he wants to be exclusive with me or what? Uhh I'm just confused if he really did have feelings for me, why didn't he just come out and ask me to be his gf???? Do you think that he wanted to keep playing the field too? But now that he thinks that I see other guys he doesn't really want anything to do with me it seems like. What should I do??

 

 

I'm not going to kiss any ass or take it easy on you. November??? That's 8 months that you've been seeing two different guys, and you've purposely avoided making any "official" committments to them (whatever that means). In my opinion, if you're seeing someone continuously over the course of 8 months and you're sleeping with them, it should remain exclusive. If not, I wouldn't consider them more than friends with benefits, hence the accusation of being a slut.

 

For guy number 2, the guy you like less, it seems you've just been keeping him around until guy number 1 makes his decision.

[vi_pn_babe25]

I want to tell both Tim'sAngel and Lishy thank you for your inspiring words. You've both always been there for me and I really appreciate it. Throughout my whole ordeal on this site and even in real life, you're the ones that have shown me love and support. I've said before that most of my friends all know the guys that I see, so it's hard to talk to them and my other (girl) friends don't really understand I guess. And I'm definitely not going to turn to any of my guy friends for advice, at least on this subject. And my family would probably freak out if I told them half of what I tell people on here, although my cousin and I share similar characteristics, maybe it's in the blood, I don't know. So I can't thank you 2 enough on how much you've helped me see the other side of things even though I do sound like a broken record at times. And lately I've been beating myself up for even involving myself in these kinds of relationships, because I know it's not healthy, and I guess the real reason why I keep going back to them is because unfortunately that's all I know. It's going to be rough to break the cycle, but honestly it's not mature of me to be acting this way, I just need to wake up, the only problem I have now is trusting guys I think. It's hard for me to figure out if they just want me for a good time, or if they truly want to get to know me as ME and not what's on the outside but rather what's on the inside.

 

Thanks again Tim'sAngel & Lishy for your words of wisdom

-Love ya xx

[johan]

I think I was nice, too. Thank me.

[vi_pn_babe25]

I'm not going to kiss any ass or take it easy on you. November??? That's 8 months that you've been seeing two different guys, and you've purposely avoided making any "official" committments to them (whatever that means). In my opinion, if you're seeing someone continuously over the course of 8 months and you're sleeping with them, it should remain exclusive. If not, I wouldn't consider them more than friends with benefits, hence the accusation of being a slut.

 

For guy number 2, the guy you like less, it seems you've just been keeping him around until guy number 1 makes his decision.

 

Well the fact of the matter is that the first time I ever slept with the guy I like was in April. Same goes for the other guy, although that was in May. So I guess we were bf/gf in his mind, though he never called me his gf so that's where I was confused. Uh the next time I get into any kind of relationship I need to communicate better, that's most of the problem.

[vi_pn_babe25]

I think I was nice, too. Thank me.

 

I believe everyone, except for certain people in the early beginning of this thread, was nice.

[vi_pn_babe25]

Vi, if you're still around I'll take you on a date No disrespectin' here

 

That's very nice of you. You're the first (guy) step to my recovery. I'll have to take you up on that lol

[johan]

I believe everyone, except for certain people in the early beginning of this thread, was nice.

 

Yeah, but I'm the only one who actually asked to be thanked. I think that makes me stand out from the rest. Thank me. Someone thank me. Touche?

[vi_pn_babe25]

Vi, if you're still around I'll take you on a date No disrespectin' here

 

 

By the way everyone I just finished eating a piece of chicken I cooked. I will miss it so... *goes off to eat more*

 

That's very nice of you. You're the first (guy) step to my recovery. I'll have to take you up on that lol

[vi_pn_babe25]

Yeah, but I'm the only one who actually asked to be thanked. I think that makes me stand out from the rest. Thank me. Someone thank me. Touche?

 

lol thank you johan

[Sapiens]

Well the fact of the matter is that the first time I ever slept with the guy I like was in April. Same goes for the other guy, although that was in May. So I guess we were bf/gf in his mind, though he never called me his gf so that's where I was confused. Uh the next time I get into any kind of relationship I need to communicate better, that's most of the problem.

 

LOL, now you are playing word games...

 

If a girl sleeps with me, and it's not a ONS, then yes, SHE IS MY WOMAN!

 

If you sleep with me and then with someone else while with me, then you are a slut. Furthermore, I don't want you and I sure don't one a piece of azz someone else had and they know that I know they have had it.

 

-Sapiens

[johan]

lol thank you johan

 

It was nothing. Anytime!

[vi_pn_babe25]

LOL, now you are playing word games...

 

If a girl sleeps with me, and it's not a ONS, then yes, SHE IS MY WOMAN!

 

If you sleep with me and then with someone else while with me, then you are a slut. Furthermore, I don't want you and I sure don't one a piece of azz someone else had and they know that I know they have had it.

 

 

-Sapiens

 

Ok I understand

[cuddlycuddlebum]

Iagree completely. You should save yourself for engagement/marriage or you are just a common whore.

 

LOL, now you are playing word games...

 

If a girl sleeps with me, and it's not a ONS, then yes, SHE IS MY WOMAN!

 

If you sleep with me and then with someone else while with me, then you are a slut. Furthermore, I don't want you and I sure don't one a piece of azz someone else had and they know that I know they have had it.

 

-Sapiens

[Touche]

Yeah, but I'm the only one who actually asked to be thanked. I think that makes me stand out from the rest. Thank me. Someone thank me. Touche?

 

What do I need to thank you for? Ha! I guess I was one of the bad ones in the "beginning" who don't get thanked. I'm SUCH a bitch!

[vi_pn_babe25]

What do I need to thank you for? Ha! I guess I was one of the bad ones in the "beginning" who don't get thanked. I'm SUCH a bitch!

 

No not you Touche

Thanks for your time.

[johan]

What do I need to thank you for? Ha! I guess I was one of the bad ones in the "beginning" who don't get thanked. I'm SUCH a bitch!

 

Oh come on. If you received responses like yours on one of your own posts, you wouldn't thank yourself at all... I think you know what I mean.

[vi_pn_babe25]

No not you Touche

Thanks for your time.

 

Just a lil harsh but like I said thanks for taking the time k.

[Touche]

Just a lil harsh but like I said thanks for taking the time k.

 

Nya, Nya Johan!

 

I know Vi that I can come across that way but believe me, I meant well. You seem like a sweet girl and I just don't want you to be looked at the way these men are looking at you. You should think of yourself as a goddess. And only the most deserving man (that's MAN, singular:p ) should have you.

[Touche]

Oh come on. If you received responses like yours on one of your own posts, you wouldn't thank yourself at all... I think you know what I mean.

 

Yes, I would thank me. I'd also offer some kind of monetary compensation for my time!