Last night when I talked to them again, they both called me a f**kin slut!

[Vertex]

Vi, if you're still around I'll take you on a date No disrespectin' here

 

That's very nice of you. You're the first (guy) step to my recovery. I'll have to take you up on that lol

 

First step to recovery eh, glad to hear it Although transportation may be an issue

[Lishy]

Iagree completely. You should save yourself for engagement/marriage or you are just a common whore.

 

Question to cuddle ...... Does your fiance pay you to slap his dick on your face? If not he should cos you could make a killing!

 

Anyway ........

 

Keep strong and drop those guys like they are hot Vi!

 

You will never get the respect you deserve from them hon!

 

And now you have to learn from this situation and not get into it again!

[vi_pn_babe25]

 

First step to recovery eh, glad to hear it Although transportation may be an issue

 

Ya never know...I might not be so far away...unless it involves traveling over the atlantic or pacific ocean lol

[vi_pn_babe25]

Question to cuddle ...... Does your fiance pay you to slap his dick on your face? If not he should cos you could make a killing!

 

Anyway ........

 

Keep strong and drop those guys like they are hot Vi!

 

You will never get the respect you deserve from them hon!

 

And now you have to learn from this situation and not get into it again!

 

lol it's sad but true what you said about cuddle...hopefully she'll learn too

 

yah I think I'm going to change their name in my phone to "don't answer#1" & "don't answer#2" lol

[Vertex]

vi: Oh? Let me know where and we'll make plans

[Lishy]

vi: Oh? Let me know where and we'll make plans

 

Dont do it Vi! Vertex has mad cows disease!!!!

[jerbear]

Dont do it Vi! Vertex has mad cows disease!!!!

 

I thought the foaming around his mouth was from the Starbucks cappucino...

:lmao:

 

Just kidding... :lmao: :p

[Vertex]

Lishy: Cut me some slack, it was one bad piece of meat 9_9 jk jk

jer: Mmm Starbucks.

[vi_pn_babe25]

lol you guys are too funny

 

vertex- sounds good, we'll make some plans how old are you by the way if I may ask? just private message me if ya don't want to say on here lol

[Vertex]

I sent you a PM, haha I promise I don't have the bird flu or mad cow!

[Lishy]

DONT DO IT VI!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

Moooooooooooooooooooooo!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[Vertex]

Oh would you lighten up? I'm totally fine, there's nothing wrong withMOOOOOOOOOO! Oh no...!

[Lishy]

Muhahhahahhaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

[vi_pn_babe25]

DONT DO IT VI!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

Moooooooooooooooooooooo!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

OH MY!! lol

[vi_pn_babe25]

Wow is that possible for 1,063 people to view my thread in 3 days?! Geeez.... lol

[Tim'sAngel]

Wow is that possible for 1,063 people to view my thread in 3 days?! Geeez.... lol

 

Your a star

[vi_pn_babe25]

Your a star

 

yah my dirty dish can be exciting lol

 

but thanks girl

[vi_pn_babe25]

Lastnight I was hanging out with some o friends that were good friends with 1 of the guys I talked about in the beginning of this post. Well I haven't talked to him in about 2 weeks or seen him for now probably a month. I kinda laid low from him after he found out that I was talking to the guy that was like obsessed with me, and after they both called me a slut. And actually I haven't talked to the other guy for a month now. But that's the way I want it with him at least because like I said he was a lil obsessed.

Anyways....this guy that was really good friends with him told me lastnight that he is really depressed and got back into his old habits-doing drugs. Last time I talked to him he was getting on the right track, and he seemed to be happy.

Now the sad part.....his old friend told me he really liked me because I was really the only good thing going for him. Mainly because I could see past his bad habits, and realized that without drugs he can be a genuine, good guy. His friend agreed, because he said that he changed for the worst right after high school because he started hanging out with the wrong crowd. And I believe him because his old friend is a goody goody.

But now it makes me feel bad that I heard he's depressed, and some part of it might be my fault Like I said we haven't talked as much since that incident when he learned that I was friends with the other guy. BUT as I've said before we weren't really officially bf/gf, so I didn't think there was a problem. But I guess it was a bigger problem than I thought because I don't talk to him as much or see him. But I want to let him know that I still care for him and that I want to try to help him, because he is my good friend.

Now I've never helped anyone with a drug problem...to his degree anyway, and I want to know what the best way to approach is. And maybe it's not even a good idea to get involved in, but from what I've heard I was the only real person that was there for him, especially because he's lost alot of friends due to his habit. I want to help him before something bad happens to him. What should I do?

[fiesty_pisces]

My problem is that I try to find the good in people even if others dislike them for any given reason. I don't know why that is, I don't understand it myself, but sometimes I end up in situations wondering why I care so much....and end up feeling like they don't even realize how much I care.

 

For instance, about a week ago I got a text message from one of the guys that had called me a slut, (guy w/drug problem) so I called him back later that night, it was 4th of July so I'd been drinking with friends, and he answered and asked why I always call him when I'm drunk. I was kinda set back by that, because for one thing I don't call him that often anymore and usually it's not when I'm drunk. Anyway, I took that as a hint so I called him later that week during the day (not drunk) and talked to him for a lil bit. Then last Thursday night he called me from a club and asked if I wanted to meet him, but I told him no because I had to work the next day. He told me to call him the next day (Friday) and I did, we talked and he told me to call him later if I went out. Well like I said, he's the one with the drug problem and it seems as though he gets mood swings. Those times that I talked to him (thursday & early friday) he was being the person that I met him as, a good, genuinely caring, likeable guy. Later on that night (lastnight) I called him, like he told me to so we could hang out He answered and said where he was at...but he kinda seemed annoyed. But I asked him how long he'd be there so I could meet him, then I told him that I'd call him once I arrived at the club. Well I got to the club, called him and he didn't answer. About 10 minutes later I called him again, he didn't answer. So I was getting kinda ansy because I didn't want to meet him if he wasn't there still. So I called him again, he answered this time but he yelled at me and said, "quit f**king calling" and hung up on me. I was like WTF?!!! I text messaged him making up a story that I had a problem and that's why I had called so many times, just to make him feel kinda guilty. And honestly I would keep calling if I really did have a problem, but like I said I don't call him that often. So I really didn't understand what the big problem was, especially because I was all alone and who knows what could've happened. So with that I was steaming pissed and shocked that he said that and just went home. Then at about 3 am, when the club closed he called, but I didn't answer because I was just getting to bed. Then he called again an hour later from his friend's phone,(his phone always dies) but I was asleep so I didn't answer. So today I text messaged him today explaining what happened, but it was more of a pissed of kinda message. I haven't heard from him since he called last (4am), I understand his phone is probably dead or lost like always, but I kinda wish I had answered the phone just to see what he had to say.

Anyways, I really don't understand the whole drug mood swing thing, because I haven't been around it as much as he has. I've read that once the person starts to come down, they can get irritable. But he seems to get just plain mean. Is that because he's an addict and he doesn't know how to control himself or his emotions? Or is he literally trying to blow me off for good? Like I said though, whenever he's not drugged up he's the guy I used to know and like, and since I care about him alot, I still have feeling of wanting to help him. But now I don't even know if it's worth it. I just hope he realizes that if he does lose me as a friend, then he lost the only person that actually cares about him. I understand he may be depressed....but there's only so much I can take.

 

Well with that said, should I even bother with him anymore? I was going to tell him that once he gets himself straight, then he can call me. But I'm not sure what an addict would think of that, because I know they don't like to hear that they have a problem. Any suggestions??

[fiesty_pisces]

does anyone have any suggestions?