audrey Posted October 18, 2001 Share Posted October 18, 2001 The greatest man I've ever known is on the verge of breaking it off with me. I've never cheated on him or lied to him or even done anything very serious. I've just done alot of small, selfish things and now I think he has had it, but he is giving me my last chance. This is the man of my dreams and it took him trying to break it off for me to realize it - I took him for granted. Now all I want to do is prove to him that I love him and I'm sorry and that he hasn't made a bd decision by staying with me. What can I do? Link to post Share on other sites
BeenThere Posted October 18, 2001 Share Posted October 18, 2001 Say it to him! But don't expect lip-service to turn this relationship around unless you're willing to back up your words with some serious action. You've pushed it to the edge, for whatever reason, and now you realize that *you're* the one who's actually out there on a limb. Let's hope your boyfriend still loves you enough to toss a rope of compassion and rescue you from yourself. Second chances can NEVER be taken for granted. Nor can people... I sincerely hope things go your way---this time. The greatest man I've ever known is on the verge of breaking it off with me. I've never cheated on him or lied to him or even done anything very serious. I've just done alot of small, selfish things and now I think he has had it, but he is giving me my last chance. This is the man of my dreams and it took him trying to break it off for me to realize it - I took him for granted. Now all I want to do is prove to him that I love him and I'm sorry and that he hasn't made a bd decision by staying with me. What can I do? Link to post Share on other sites
Ed Posted October 18, 2001 Share Posted October 18, 2001 So you have one more chance to not screw up for the rest of your life. If that's the case, this relationship is doomed. It is very likely that you will make some kind of mistake in the future. So, it's just a matter of time. Be glad that you got to spend some time with the guy of your dreams. Some women never get that far. If I were you I would tell him that you are a human being and you will make mistakes from time to time during your life, but you are doing the best you can and if he doesn't like it, then carry his butt! Maybe you'll dream about a different guy next week. Link to post Share on other sites
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