Muzicman94 Posted May 22, 2006 Share Posted May 22, 2006 alright...so i like this girl...well obviously or i wouldnt be here...but i seriously cant tell how she feels because well...im either not understanding her actions...or im completely dense...alright here are the details...this weekend...my chamber orchestra went on a trip for a competition...obviously shes there too...im going to state this now...we are already REALLY good friends...alright...now for the stuff that happened...ill just make a list... 1- on the busride there...she starts hittin me on the arm and laughin and stuff...ok kinda wierd...but normal for her i suppose.. 2- seems to purposefully walk next to me when we are walkin around this asmusement park with the group...though since we're friends i dunno... 3- in the amusement park...she keeps sticking food in my mouth...like cotton candy and stuff...though i say i dun want it... 4- sat alone on one of those cable cars that transport you to the other side of the park... 5- kept trying to take pictures of me/with me....(i dont like pictures..for the record...so she really doesnt have any...until now anyway) 6- drags me into this cave attraction in the park by my arm and basically grabs my shirt from the back and pushes me in front of her with the excuse that ill get scared instead of her incase anything jumps out... 7- on the busride back to the hotel...she leans on me and sleeps on my shoulder...never happened before now with her... 8- at the hotel pool...tries repeatedly to "dunk" me...and latches onto my back...shes quite a bit shorter than i am...so yea...imagine a piggyback ride and u get the situation... 9- busride back...once again sleeps on my shoulder since its still early...o yea...and steals my jacket to cover up her legs with...cold from the AC i guess...and the short shorts hahahaha... 10- bus stops at baltimore for a bit...we stopped at the aquarium for the heck of it (meaning the whole orchestra group)....coming out...it was gettin windy and somewhat cold...once again my jacket is taken by her to be used of course... 11- on the bus again...still has my jacket and is using it as warmth for her legs again...and basically just chattin and laughin for the rest of the way back nonstop...about 4 hours or so....(just so you guys know...im a quiet guy...so i think a 4 hour straight conversation is just about a new record for me...2nd place record being like 10 minutes....meanin i've never talked that long before this) alright thanks for whoever took the time to read that...now...wut do u guys think...i cant tell if these things are happening cuz we're really good friends...or cuz i got a shot at this...o by the way...(im a very shy guy around girls im interested in...so any advice on anything would be appreciated)...alright...off to bed...ill check back tomorrow...thx in advance... Link to post Share on other sites
Chloe89 Posted May 23, 2006 Share Posted May 23, 2006 i cant realli say for sure bc obviously i dont know either of you, but from a girls perspective it seems like shes quite interested in you. when she does stuff like shove food in your mouth even tho you dont want it, itz her wild way of flirting. dont be afraid to flirt back, she seems interested enuff. if i were her i'd flirt w/ you a lot but then seem a little distanced, bc i'd be waiting for you to ask me out. if she seems quieter or moody or even disinterested, itz probally bc shes been flirting w/ you a lot n either you havent satisfied her w/ flirting baq or shes wondering if youre even interested at all. girls get insecure about a lot of things, especially if we flirt w/ a guy n make it obvious but he doesnt make a move. i think you should risk it n ask her out. bc even if she turns you down (which it REALLI doesnt seem to me that she will), itz worth a shot to be w/ sum1 youre heart speeds up for. i hope this helps sum. n good luck!! Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted May 23, 2006 Share Posted May 23, 2006 yea thanks a whole bunch...now just gotta work up the courage to do that hahahaha...its tough bein a shy guy...hahahaha as i know all u other shy guys will agree with me Link to post Share on other sites
Author Muzicman94 Posted May 28, 2006 Author Share Posted May 28, 2006 hey could someone delete this post for me? Link to post Share on other sites
Solachica Posted May 29, 2006 Share Posted May 29, 2006 Maybe she just wanted someone to hang with on tht trip and flirting just became part of it? Link to post Share on other sites
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