atreyu3 Posted May 22, 2006 Share Posted May 22, 2006 Hi all. I am 19 years old and was in a relationship for 3 years. It ended because we werent getting along anymore. We attended the same college and it was like we were living together, I realy wanted to breakup with her and tried one day but she started crying so much and was asking me what she should tell her parents and that she would have to transfer schools. One month later she is breaking up with me. It's been almost 5 months now and I still feel the same way as the day she broke up with me. Things werent THAT bad we just werent getting along anymore and fighting to much for the both of us to handle really. I dont even really know wuts going on now, we had 2 of the same classes together at school so we still spent some time with each other, not hanging out, we went out to eat a few times but nothing really crazy. The last week of school we studied for finals together and we got kinda close again, she slept over my apartment three days in a row, we didnt hookup or anthing she just slept on me and we spent the day together playing tennis and rented movies. We had a talk just before we left college and she finally admitted that she does miss a relationship she just doesnt want to go out with me if shes not 100% sure this is going to happen again. We have been home for 2 weeks now and we havent even talked to each other. Please someone help me out I dont know what to do I feel I really do love her and i know she loved me she told me about 5 times a day when we were dating, we never cheated on each other and we are both very good looking people, which is very unlikely for a couple like us not to cheat on each other. I dont know what to do I want her back so bad...... Link to post Share on other sites
bigdogg1811 Posted May 22, 2006 Share Posted May 22, 2006 My ex-girlfriend has done the same thing and always talks to me about how she misses the old dayz and how she wants me back. she still loves me a lot, and it sounds like that's the same thing that's happening with you. you just have to practice NC...it really works...it makes your ex thing about a lot of things and they could come back on their own. just don't force anything. don't come across as desperate, if you love her, you will respect her privacy and space if she wants it. Link to post Share on other sites
Whitt Posted May 22, 2006 Share Posted May 22, 2006 I think she needs some time to think about what she wants. Give her a couple more weeks and then call her. Don't discuss getting back with her or anything like that. Just call her up and invite her to dinner or over to watch a movie. Link to post Share on other sites
Author atreyu3 Posted May 22, 2006 Author Share Posted May 22, 2006 Thank you for taking the time to reply to my message, if anyone else would offer any insight it would be deeply appreciated for i am pretty upset and reading other peoples opinion on the matter brings a little clarity to the situation. Link to post Share on other sites
Author atreyu3 Posted May 23, 2006 Author Share Posted May 23, 2006 Hey Rio/DS you both seem very knowledgable on relationships do you have any advice for me? Link to post Share on other sites
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