Author RecordProducer Posted June 21, 2006 Author Share Posted June 21, 2006 Thanks, everyone. I actually came to the point where I completely don't care about her and am even amused by her attempts. My husband caught her in a lie (she said that hubby's father asked to take care of her son the week when BIL was away and hubby checked this with his dad and turned out she lied). It's a small, stupid lie, but now he won't believe her anything she says. Stupid woman! I could use this against her easily, but I am not that kind of person. My husband realized that they do s*** and he gives them a hard time. Now I have to calm HIM down and not let him argue with his brother over stupid things. He didn't want us to attend the family picnic for father's day! I wanted to go. I heard him telling his brother on the phone: "We'll bring our own food... OK, we'll bring a cake... That's not what we were told the last time." His parents really like me and hubby is on my side so I really don't care anymore. His dad's wife ignores me, even told me that watermelon is not healthy just to oppose me! A week ago she told her husband that his youngest son is the only handsome member in the family. I am more wary of serious things they could come up with to eliminate me, not stupid BS like who said what and why. I have a feeling that she partially counts on the possibility that I am not a good person and that we'll divorce soon. She doesn't like the fact that my husband loves my kids to death. Last time she suggested that we hire some girl she knows as a baby-sitter - she just can't get over her own bulls***: when we were paying his brother's daughter to baby-sit, they forbade her to do it. I guess she wanted to make our lives miserable. Now that she saw that hubby enjoys their company, they got even closer to each other, and we're not even looking for a baby-sitter, now she talks about us getting one as if it pertains her somehow. When she married her husband, they both had 3-year old daughters from previous marriages and they fought because of them. And now she witnesses a man accepting my children as his own. Of course, she is jealous! The thing is the more s*** they do the more my husband holds on to me. That's the good side of his stubborness. By the way, she is very sweet and cheerful woman. She loves to leave impression as if she is always willing to help. Sure, she'll give you advice about everything, all kinds of suggestions, and good intentions. Just don't ask her to DO something for you. Not that I have or would ask. Her 7-year old kid asked me the other day: "How come you're glad when I come over?" "How come..." Cuz I am not a bitch? I told him cuz he was good, smart, respectful, etc. Last night he didn't wanna go home, wanted to sleep over. Link to post Share on other sites
Mary3 Posted June 22, 2006 Share Posted June 22, 2006 Thanks, everyone. I actually came to the point where I completely don't care about her and am even amused by her attempts. My husband caught her in a lie (she said that hubby's father asked to take care of her son the week when BIL was away and hubby checked this with his dad and turned out she lied). It's a small, stupid lie, but now he won't believe her anything she says. Stupid woman! I could use this against her easily, but I am not that kind of person. My husband realized that they do s*** and he gives them a hard time. Now I have to calm HIM down and not let him argue with his brother over stupid things. He didn't want us to attend the family picnic for father's day! I wanted to go. I heard him telling his brother on the phone: "We'll bring our own food... OK, we'll bring a cake... That's not what we were told the last time." His parents really like me and hubby is on my side so I really don't care anymore. His dad's wife ignores me, even told me that watermelon is not healthy just to oppose me! A week ago she told her husband that his youngest son is the only handsome member in the family. I am more wary of serious things they could come up with to eliminate me, not stupid BS like who said what and why. I have a feeling that she partially counts on the possibility that I am not a good person and that we'll divorce soon. She doesn't like the fact that my husband loves my kids to death. Last time she suggested that we hire some girl she knows as a baby-sitter - she just can't get over her own bulls***: when we were paying his brother's daughter to baby-sit, they forbade her to do it. I guess she wanted to make our lives miserable. Now that she saw that hubby enjoys their company, they got even closer to each other, and we're not even looking for a baby-sitter, now she talks about us getting one as if it pertains her somehow. When she married her husband, they both had 3-year old daughters from previous marriages and they fought because of them. And now she witnesses a man accepting my children as his own. Of course, she is jealous! The thing is the more s*** they do the more my husband holds on to me. That's the good side of his stubborness. By the way, she is very sweet and cheerful woman. She loves to leave impression as if she is always willing to help. Sure, she'll give you advice about everything, all kinds of suggestions, and good intentions. Just don't ask her to DO something for you. Not that I have or would ask. Her 7-year old kid asked me the other day: "How come you're glad when I come over?" "How come..." Cuz I am not a bitch? I told him cuz he was good, smart, respectful, etc. Last night he didn't wanna go home, wanted to sleep over. She is basically a slithering snake in the grass waiting to strike mainly at you so just be on the alert. Maybe when she sees that she has no effect on you she will leave you alone Link to post Share on other sites
Author RecordProducer Posted June 22, 2006 Author Share Posted June 22, 2006 She is basically a slithering snake in the grass waiting to strike mainly at you so just be on the alert. Maybe when she sees that she has no effect on you she will leave you alone You're right. I am kind to her and she is kind to me. I won't let her provoke me or ruin my day. But I will certainly not get close to her again. One lesson is enough for me. Sometimes I wonder if she is actually good and maybe I exaggerate the whole thing. But then again, hubby feels the same... Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted June 22, 2006 Share Posted June 22, 2006 You're right. I am kind to her and she is kind to me. I won't let her provoke me or ruin my day. But I will certainly not get close to her again. One lesson is enough for me... just kill the bitch already RP Link to post Share on other sites
Author RecordProducer Posted June 23, 2006 Author Share Posted June 23, 2006 just kill the bitch already RP Hahah! Oh, funny thing, now that I stopped complaining to hubby about her, he calls her a "bitch" for the littlest things! Before he was saying that she is a good person. The great thing about my husband's stubborness is that you can get anything you WANT from him by teling him that you don't want it. That's how I got him to marry me - I told him I didn't want to see him ever again. Next time when I want a new car, I'll tell him I decided to keep my Cadillac forever! Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted June 23, 2006 Share Posted June 23, 2006 You don't have to like them, all your inlaws, but you do have to deal with them... You're handling things really well RP, so you should be really proud of yourself!! Link to post Share on other sites
Author RecordProducer Posted June 23, 2006 Author Share Posted June 23, 2006 You don't have to like them, all your inlaws, but you do have to deal with them... You're handling things really well RP, so you should be really proud of yourself!!As long as you're proud of me... Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted June 23, 2006 Share Posted June 23, 2006 Ofcourse I am proud of you! Even though I know deep down inside you wanna take a swing at her and bust up her NOSE! Link to post Share on other sites
Author RecordProducer Posted June 24, 2006 Author Share Posted June 24, 2006 Ofcourse I am proud of you! Even though I know deep down inside you wanna take a swing at her and bust up her NOSE! Hm... actually not. I am a jumpy person otherwise and feel froggy often ... but this time, I just wonder: why can't we all get along? Seriously. It's so good to be friends with people and they all refuse that. I am just like: "Yeah, whatever..." Link to post Share on other sites
Mary3 Posted June 24, 2006 Share Posted June 24, 2006 As long as you're proud of me... I think you are very pretty RP and its no wonder your hunny loves you so much ! Link to post Share on other sites
Author RecordProducer Posted June 24, 2006 Author Share Posted June 24, 2006 I think you are very pretty RP and its no wonder your hunny loves you so much ! Another bicurious woman wants to have sex with me! I said this recently in another thread and I'll say it again: "No matter how pretty she is, somebody is tired of putting up with her crap!" Thanks for the compliment anyway. I am not too pretty... I am just pretty enough to get sex anytime... But I never got it, cuz I never liked anyone... Sometimes I just wish I were a lesbian. Link to post Share on other sites
Mary3 Posted June 24, 2006 Share Posted June 24, 2006 Another bicurious woman wants to have sex with me! I said this recently in another thread and I'll say it again: "No matter how pretty she is, somebody is tired of putting up with her crap!" Thanks for the compliment anyway. I am not too pretty... I am just pretty enough to get sex anytime... But I never got it, cuz I never liked anyone... Sometimes I just wish I were a lesbian. LOL ! I've never been with a woman ( yet )...lmao. Hard to replace what a man can offer ya know....Big strong chest,....and other * things * Link to post Share on other sites
Author RecordProducer Posted June 24, 2006 Author Share Posted June 24, 2006 I've never been with a woman ( yet )My my, I created a monster! Lots of them! I opened the door to a new trend when it comes to female sexuality and liberation of sexual desires by stating openly that I want sex with a woman! Now will I be burnt at a stake and then 100 years later have a statue with my face and body (don't forget to sculpture my big boobs!) in Philly downtown, celebrating the woman who opened the door to sexual freedom for bisexual women? Link to post Share on other sites
Mary3 Posted June 25, 2006 Share Posted June 25, 2006 My my, I created a monster! Lots of them! I opened the door to a new trend when it comes to female sexuality and liberation of sexual desires by stating openly that I want sex with a woman! Now will I be burnt at a stake and then 100 years later have a statue with my face and body (don't forget to sculpture my big boobs!) in Philly downtown, celebrating the woman who opened the door to sexual freedom for bisexual women? Um...how big are your boobs ? LOL ! Link to post Share on other sites
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