Guest Posted May 22, 2006 Share Posted May 22, 2006 My fiance told me he is not having sex with me becasue of my attitude as well as saying I never want to do anything, which is wrong. Together for 7 years and everything has stopped completely, no sex, no affection, but stays with me, what is going on? I can't deal anymore, he never wants to talk either, every time I try to talk he says he we go again. advice please??? Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted May 22, 2006 Share Posted May 22, 2006 Withholding sex for punishment isn't right. It's a stupid game of control, a stupid way of handling a situation in general. If there is a problem you two should be able to sit down and discuss it, otherwise if you can't then consider couples therapy. DO NOT MARRY a man who is treating you like this. It will only get worse later in life UNLESS he learns how to communicate and listen! Do you love him? Can you see yourself raising kids with him and growing old with him? Maybe it's time to reconsider putting the marriage plans on hold until you two can atleast TALK. Link to post Share on other sites
Presario Posted May 22, 2006 Share Posted May 22, 2006 My fiance told me he is not having sex with me becasue of my attitude as well as saying I never want to do anything, which is wrong. Attitute towards what? What does he want you to do? Together for 7 years and everything has stopped completely, no sex, no affection, but stays with me, what is going on? I can't deal anymore, he never wants to talk either, every time I try to talk he says he we go again. advice please??? It looks like he wants to teach you a lesson, but from your post it's hard to figure out what's going on. Link to post Share on other sites
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