I Need assistance

[ShadowLegion68]

I have A Problem, There is this girl at school I have known her for about 2 1/2 and i liked her for about 2 years i want to know if she likes me or not. There ahave been a few signals, She often smiles at me when i say "Hi" and dosn't look at me when i say it. She also likes to treat me some times unlike anyone else, and she looks at in the hallway, in the lunch room, and gym. We also start convestions sometimes, and my friends always say that she likes me form the way that we act around each other. It's really strange becuase we sometimes had fights like we really were boyfriend and girlfriend but we would make up when we talked to each other and it worked out over time. Just last week i was stading in the lunch room line with my friends talking and she comes up behind me and starts going throgh here purse, and out of no were i say "hi" to her, then she smiled and tilted her head down and droped something, We talked for asecond then we continued what we were doing before then. The next day where were in gym(P.E) and when i sat down when the coach was taking role i happen to look accros the gym and she was looking at me and smillied alittle, at the end of gym i was getting ready to exit into the hallway and i said "hey" to her, then she smillied and waved at me. Just Yesterday we went outside for P.E I had my CD player (like i always do) and she was i a group with 4 of her freinds, they all moved over near me (i guess 2-3 ft. away from me), So she desides to stand where she could see me i happen to look to my left and i see her look at me. and 10 min's later they deside to move to the right of me and her back was facing me this time, one of my freinds wakes over and i talked to him and when he walked off a few seconds later she turns around really quick and looks at me, I Didn't want to say "Hi" becuase i would get really nervous and my knees would start to shack. Today in the lunch room she comes in and goes to get in line she looks at the 2 tables where a always sit at, and when i saw her looking around i was trying not to look at her but i couldn't resist:love:. When she saw me she looked at me for a few seconds (didn't smile) and turned her head. What does this mean?

 

I don't want to ask her if she likes more or not becuase it might mess up the friendship we have, and it's near the end of the year of school and im kind of panicking even though we are going to be in that same school next year,but i don't want to go throught the same thing that happend the past 2 years. What should i do?

 

P.S. Im very shy i only talk to her sometimes when im with my friends:(

[DarkDwarf]

You don't ask a girl "Do you like me?". You need to ask her out. I am not sure how your school works, but you might ask her to a school dance. I prefer to go to the movies on first dates.

 

From the clues you gave I would bet that she likes you. I would go for it. Just go up to her tommorow and say "Do you want to go to the movies this weekend?" I know you are shy, but You have to do it eventually. You don't want to spend the rest of your life asking yourself, "What if"

 

Go for it. And do it tommorow because there's no time like the present.

[ShadowLegion68]

Ill have to see what i can do and ill post what happens today. i might just write a note to her and see how it goes. My mind is telling me to do it and my stomach isn't . I need to ask her out this week becuase i only have 2 more days in school and they are both half-days.

[Guest]

DO IT DO IT DO IT

 

This is DarkDwarf

[DarkDwarf]

Do It Do It Do It

[Muzicman94]

u can do it man...seriously my situation isnt so much different then urs...lemme know how it goes...and good luck man...get her before someone else does

[ShadowLegion68]

I paniced i didn't do it . But i have an idea;). Seens it's near the end of the school year and people sigh year books and stuff, im going ask her " Would you like to sigh my book" and then give her the note im going to have to think what im going to put in the note. Does anyone have and ideas.

[ShadowLegion68]

*Name* (Girls Name i like here)

Here is what i got so far for the note im going to give to her.

 

" I was thinking? Would you like to keep in touch with each other over the summer or go somewhere, like the movies or somewhere this weekend or sometime during the summer.

_________________________

 

 

Yes |Or|No

 

 

_________________________

 

 

If not, I wanted to get that off my chest for a long time.

 

The Reason I am saying this in this note is becaues I don't know how to say it in words, so Im writing it.

 

 

Ill Understand your and respect your awnser.

 

If you want you can return this or just tell me in person."

 

____________________________________________________

 

*My Name*

 

 

 

 

 

So what do you think? At least it's a start anyway

[DarkDwarf]

It's ok. I would really just have her sign your yearbook and then just ask her. It might be stupid from her point of view if you write it as a note when you could just say it to her face.

[ShadowLegion68]

Ok ill just sleep on that:confused:.

[thread]

I have A Problem, There is this girl at school I have known her for about 2 1/2 and i liked her for about 2 years i want to know if she likes me or not. There ahave been a few signals, She often smiles at me when i say "Hi" and dosn't look at me when i say it. She also likes to treat me some times unlike anyone else, and she looks at in the hallway, in the lunch room, and gym. We also start convestions sometimes, and my friends always say that she likes me form the way that we act around each other. It's really strange becuase we sometimes had fights like we really were boyfriend and girlfriend but we would make up when we talked to each other and it worked out over time. Just last week i was stading in the lunch room line with my friends talking and she comes up behind me and starts going throgh here purse, and out of no were i say "hi" to her, then she smiled and tilted her head down and droped something, We talked for asecond then we continued what we were doing before then. The next day where were in gym(P.E) and when i sat down when the coach was taking role i happen to look accros the gym and she was looking at me and smillied alittle, at the end of gym i was getting ready to exit into the hallway and i said "hey" to her, then she smillied and waved at me. Just Yesterday we went outside for P.E I had my CD player (like i always do) and she was i a group with 4 of her freinds, they all moved over near me (i guess 2-3 ft. away from me), So she desides to stand where she could see me i happen to look to my left and i see her look at me. and 10 min's later they deside to move to the right of me and her back was facing me this time, one of my freinds wakes over and i talked to him and when he walked off a few seconds later she turns around really quick and looks at me, I Didn't want to say "Hi" becuase i would get really nervous and my knees would start to shack. Today in the lunch room she comes in and goes to get in line she looks at the 2 tables where a always sit at, and when i saw her looking around i was trying not to look at her but i couldn't resist:love:. When she saw me she looked at me for a few seconds (didn't smile) and turned her head. What does this mean?

 

I don't want to ask her if she likes more or not becuase it might mess up the friendship we have, and it's near the end of the year of school and im kind of panicking even though we are going to be in that same school next year,but i don't want to go throught the same thing that happend the past 2 years. What should i do?

 

P.S. Im very shy i only talk to her sometimes when im with my friends:(

 

REPLY:

Just go for it! You got nothing to lose. If you don't act it now, you will regret it later just like me. Four years in high school have gone very fast and when it is the graduation day come, you will regret it. Trust me, go all out and talk to her while you still have a chance because life is too short to be shy and not doing nothing because you may not see her again. Don't be like me. You know, when I was still in high school, I have a crush on one girl for six years! since we were in 6th grade. She says hi to me many times, tease me, and even write in her note book that she likes me but all I do was just being a pussy little cat and shy away, didn't reply back. She was even in the same class in band for 4 years sitting in the same room everyday, performing concert and I remember she always look back at me and smile but all I do was just not smile back even though I just want to give her the most big smile that I never done to any girl....This happen on and off six years since middle school and high school almost everyday....So before the graduation, i got the courage to ask her out for prom, but she says that it was too late now, she doesn't like me anymore. She even says i'm suck so bad even though before she says that i'm a cool guy....See what happen!!! Don't let this happen to you because you only got one chance to make it right, SHAWDOW LEGIONS, and you chance is now!!!!because you don't want to regret later....Please trust me because i have experienced it before remember this, you got nothing to lose...

[ShadowLegion68]

OK:( i gave her the note because i fergot me book. And she didn't give it back so i didn't get and awnser. I guess she might tommorow. But i already know her awnser if she dosn't give it back. I was walking home like i do everyday, and when the bus passed by me i saw her bus and she was just look out the window like she was thinking, (i really have not idea what she was doing when she look out the window) and i saw her looking at me.

 

Any ideas what i should be looking out for on the last day of school tommrow?

[ShadowLegion68]

She didn'e give me the note back today, but for some reason she looked at me alittle. But does that mena she may still like me if she didn't give the note back? Oh well time to look for another girl, until the summer is over. Thanks for the help anyway guys

[ShadowLegion68]

And im filling happy that i asked her out :cool::cool::):):laugh::laugh:

[DarkDwarf]

NEVER GIVE UP. Call her. Do not let her get away. If you don't have her number get it from the school.

 

 

Oh well. I suppose that there's not much left for us to help you with. I am glad you are feeling good.

[ShadowLegion68]

i can always look in the phone book and i might find it. But for some strange reason i fell that she has my number , i always see the number pop up almost everyday, the next time i see it im going to pick it up.

 

 

 

P.S. How am i going to get it from school ,it's summer And i don't think they will let me do that:sick:.