Work3d Posted May 24, 2006 Share Posted May 24, 2006 Hey guys, I met a girl in one of my classes late last year. In December, it was then I realized that I really had a thing for her. I had found out that she has a boyfriend around that time, too. He's in the same class as us - Me and her sit next to eachother while he [her boyfriend] sits a few rows back. Tricky part: She seems very flirtatious towards me. She likes to get close to me (Everyday that I see her), lay her head on my shoulders at times, she always wants to listen to my iPod (We share - She uses one headphone while I use the other) & she's gotten friendly; she's touched my leg a few times [Now if you read the underline part above: Her boyfriend does see all that goes on, or most of it anyways]. Just last week, when her boyfriend wasn't present that day, she wanted me to walk her to her next class... Of course I took the opportunity to do so -- In terms of how we get along, well, I always can make her laugh and we do have an easy time talking to eachother and we both seem to enjoy it... I know I do. Well, now there are some con's to her friendliness that I would like to get out of the way (Mostly just one): If I call her, she'll never answer. If I text her, she'll maybe text back once and then after that, the conversation seems to be over with her. Now, I don't know if she's just a very friendly girl or what, because I believe she does have some pretty strong feelings toward her boyfriend still. Because of this, I don't want to make a strong move on to her, make her feel like she has to choose. So, what do you guys think I should do? I'm just so confused with the situation, I've never even seen this sort of thing even in a movie! Thanks all! (I accidently posted this in the wrong section [General Relationship Discussion] earlier and I noticed that a modertor just approved of the thread - So if a mod sees that I have double posted, please feel free to delete it from the other forum. Thanks!) Link to post Share on other sites
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