trickedout Posted May 24, 2006 Share Posted May 24, 2006 i spent 7 months with this girl she is 18yrs old and we where really close i mean i was her first relationship and from what she tlls me i was the only one that threated her right. we never faught and we where very close to each other.. she was really close with me and she showed that she was really happy and always told me that she loved me and missed me etc.. then she was sitting for some important exams and we spent like 1 months seeing each other rarely after an exam where she was really really tired etc.. but the first three weeks she always showed the same passion she had at the begining and a week ago she said that she is feeling like her passion has diminished and not feeling that comfortable.. can that bee from the stress of exams?.. she also todl me that she doesn;t want a serious relation ship and that she realized it during exams.. i mean the thing is that she always showed me the other way round she always told me that she loved me and that she wants me and shed like to stay with me for a long time and that stuf than when i told her that i can go for good from her life etc.. she started crying on me and that confused me cause i think she stilll feels something for me.., we now decided to have a break to see what we want cause its like now even i im not feeling that comfortable with what she did because i never taught of she doing like this to me.. what are your advices? is a break for a couple of days till she gets her exams and things over good? cause we decided to take this break for 1 week or 1 week and a half not seeing each other and not talk to each other? reply please Link to post Share on other sites
bigdogg1811 Posted May 24, 2006 Share Posted May 24, 2006 give her all the space she needs. if you really care about her, you will respect her need for space right now as she goes through her exams. just give her some time and space. Link to post Share on other sites
Author trickedout Posted May 24, 2006 Author Share Posted May 24, 2006 but is it a good idea of having a break while shes having all this stress.. i mean sh always showed me that she really cared about me.. and all this really shocked me of telling me shes not feeling that passion that felt in the past months... i mean in these seven months we really felt close and when she met it was like meeting for the first time with the same passion and feeling and i could see by the light of her eyes when we met after a week or so, im really confused now cause i don't want to loose her but im not showing her that im feeling sorry for all this ,, i think that when she will go out with her friends for the first time with out me maybe she will realise what i am for her and she will start to miss me hopefully before this weekend she will finish her written exams.. and id lieke everything will come back to normal maybe this break will give a healthier relationship as a result Link to post Share on other sites
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