Nirvanac218 Posted May 25, 2006 Share Posted May 25, 2006 Ok this is a kinda long story about a girl I had a crush on thru 9 and 10th grade (2001-2003) any way heres how it goes. I started noticing this girl my freshman year name Stacy. She was sort of a punk rock chick who hung out with just a few friends at lunch. I noticed that she was in a lot of the same places as me during lunch time (Library, Classroom or just in the Commons Area) We met eyes a few times I can recall and I always felt like she felt the same way. I never could get up the courage to talk to her and she graduated when I was a sophmore. The other day I thought about her and found her address by luck on the Computer. I called it and got an answering machine (which I was glad I got the machine cause I had no idea what to say!) then I heard what I assumed was her mother on the machine and she said "you have reached the _________Resident" . Im quite sure this is where she lives from the searches I did. My only question now is how do I just find a way to talk to her? I know she likes the same bands and music as me, but I havent seen this girl in over 2 years. If it matters I'm 20 and she is 21. So can someone help me. Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted May 25, 2006 Share Posted May 25, 2006 Ask her out. It doesn't even have to be a date. You can just catch up and see where it goes from there. Lunch Maybe. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Nirvanac218 Posted May 25, 2006 Author Share Posted May 25, 2006 The thing is I really dont know her and have never really talked to her other than maybe hi once or twice. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Nirvanac218 Posted May 25, 2006 Author Share Posted May 25, 2006 Thanks everyone u have been a lot of "help" I really like this girl and no one is giving me real advice on what to do. Link to post Share on other sites
sazzya1987 Posted May 25, 2006 Share Posted May 25, 2006 The thing is I really dont know her and have never really talked to her other than maybe hi once or twice. I think you should talk to her on the phone and tell her about yourself that you said hi to her now and then and would be intrested ina friendship with her and ask her out for a cup of coffee or something. She will either decline or be intrested in your invite. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Nirvanac218 Posted May 25, 2006 Author Share Posted May 25, 2006 What if I followed her to somestore or something and act like I ran into on acident? Maybe talk to her tell her that I really wanted to get to know her back then and ask her if she wanted to hang out or something? Link to post Share on other sites
dgiirl Posted May 25, 2006 Share Posted May 25, 2006 Do you have any mutual friends? I would ask them for some info on her? Maybe organize an event or something for everyone to meet up. If you never really talked to her, and havent seen her in a while now, it's kinda creepy to just call her up and ask her out. So I would get some friends involved and see if they can play matchmaker. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Nirvanac218 Posted May 25, 2006 Author Share Posted May 25, 2006 She was 2 grades ahead of me and Im pretty damn sure I dont know anyone who knows her. So there inlays my probelm of how to just pop up out of nowhere and be like, "hi, i like you a lot and never had the courage to talk to you." I just want to find a way to do that with out sounding like a crazy stalking jackass who shows up 3 years later to tell her that I had a thing for her back in the day. Or maybe I should go with an approach like I never met her. Or follow her to a store and tell her,"hey I used to go to school with you". I think Im gonna need God's help on this one. Link to post Share on other sites
dgiirl Posted May 25, 2006 Share Posted May 25, 2006 You're just popping up onto the radar after 3 years, and even then you didnt really know her? Sorry, but I think you have to let this one go. You cant force things to happen. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Nirvanac218 Posted May 25, 2006 Author Share Posted May 25, 2006 Oooo. This sucks. Well you only LIVE ONCE. So im not going to just give up. She may not want me as companion or even a friend, but Im going to set out to do what I never did, Talk to her. at any cost. Link to post Share on other sites
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