-Uninvited-SHOULD I BE JEALOUS?

[Sleeps w/Butterflies]

Okay I will make this as brief as possible. Me and my bf were broken up for 5 months due to issues with communication (lots of fighting). However we have been back together since February. Things seem to now be going back to normal and I am feeling more comfortable in the relationship. The issue here is is that my BF has a wide array of friends some of which he grew up with which are really how can I put this lowlife (i.e. cheaters, drug abusers, etc).

 

Now I know these guys however we don't double date with them ever. They more often so in the summer ike to throw parties in the summer like in clubs in which people have to pay to get into (unless you are their friend). Anyway there is one coming up this weekend and my boyfriendbrought a new outfit to go however has not even invited me. I don't know how to address this or even if I should. I am really scared to have this turn into an argument but I find myself resenting him. I resent him because while I personally do not care for this group of friends I know there will be alot of people there and I am his g/f of 2 years therefore why not ask me or give me the option to say yes or no. In the past before the breakup I think I was less jealous or maybe I didnt care so much about these things but I find myself obsessing over this. They had a party last august and he went the day before we broke up and things were really rocky back then and I rerember asking him if I could go and him telling me that he didnt want to bring me around "these guys" (his friends).

 

Should I confront him and if yes how? I dont want to sound like a control freak and become emotional. Should I leave it be? Should I go out that evening partying myself with my girlfriends even though I do not like to really party? Should I just do it?

 

I am so confused....please help.

[IrishCarBomb]

Maybe he didn't invite you because he knows you don't like his lowlife friends? You've probably told him before how you don't like his friends, so wouldn't it make sense that he wouldn't think you'd like to go?

 

 

Maybe he's a lowlife himself and you don't see it?

[Sleeps w/Butterflies]

Thanks ICB.

 

I suppose during heated arguments in the past I hinted that I was not fond of some of his friends but don't you think if there would be tons of women (g/f's of other people) there that he would ask me to go. It is not like boys night out.

 

I really do love him very much and wouldnt refer to him as a lowlife however I wouldn't put him on pedistal either. I am feeling a alot of anger because of this current situation. I don't know if I should address it or leave it be.