Rita Posted October 27, 2001 Share Posted October 27, 2001 Firstly, I am Depress's sister. I am currently under a " cool period" with a guy. He just broke up with his ex after dating wih me for 4 months. H/W, we aren't seeing each other b/c he said he still needs time to get over with his ex so i suggested that we aren't see each other until he is ready. Surprisingly he really didn't call me for over one month except emailing me once in awhile. Knowing from his best friend the real reason is that he feels really tired just going thru' with his previous relationship and he just wants a rest period. At the same time, he also feels ichy once in a while and wanting to see me but he's afraid that i'll push him to start the relationship. how can i get this man back. do you guys think that it would be better that i leave him alone or should i keep hanging there and call him or email him once in a while. what is the best strategy. i really like guy and really need some " guy" advise Link to post Share on other sites
Tony T Posted October 27, 2001 Share Posted October 27, 2001 The best strategy is to totally ignore him, don't return his email for days, don't return his phone calls for two or three days and make calls brief, and initiate NO contact with him whatsoever...only respond to his. If you become a mystery to him, it will drive him out of his mind and he will come crawling to you. If you write or call him now and then, you just look to him like a chick salivating at the mouth for the chance to see him "when he's good and ready." The very best thing you can do is go on with your life and forget he exists. If he works his way back into your life, well great. Otherwise, don't consider it any big loss. The cooler you are about love, the more you get what you want. Link to post Share on other sites
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