Whats next??? ?

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Ok I have been married for 6 years... I went back into the military in January and then my marriage fell apart from then till now...My wife wants to be separated and there is not much I can do. She lives in TX and I am living in WA now...during the past few months I have flown out to TX to see if I could accomplish any repair to the relationship...(not very much) well anyways she wants to move on and concentrate on her career and her success and does not want to focus on the relationship (she doesnt want to be married). She says that she still loves me but she just does not love me like she use to that the intimacy is gone and I will allways be her first love and will allways be her daughters dad. But then she says stuff like she does not want a divorce and that the door is not closed all the way or she has not given up completley BUT she does not offer up and chances for me to prove myself...She is not going to move up to me she does not want to leave her "comfortable zone" and she is not giving any chances to repair the relationship even tho the door is not completely closed. She says I should just be her friend and I tell her thats pretty damn hard considering I am more then that. I am at a loss on how to proceed....I do not want to lose her but it looks like I allready have. Any advice is appreciated.