random tears Posted May 26, 2006 Share Posted May 26, 2006 Example: BF's behaviour is giving you grief. You have taken it upon yourself to become private investigator. What do you do if you do a surprise check up at your house (or his friends house) and see that his car is there when it is supposed to be at work? What should you do?? If it is your house, fine, walk in and check out the scene. But his friends house? Link to post Share on other sites
tikigods Posted May 26, 2006 Share Posted May 26, 2006 I would dump him. If he is giving me enough grief that I need to follow him around to see what he is doing then its not a good relationship in the first place. Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted May 26, 2006 Share Posted May 26, 2006 If you feel the need to be checking up on him, then it's time to talk about whether or not it's best to break up. Why is he lying? What is hiding? Following him or getting a PI to follow him is just the beginning of the end. Save yourself that heartache and have the "talk." Link to post Share on other sites
ronnieromance Posted May 26, 2006 Share Posted May 26, 2006 I don't know about you, but my gut has never been wrong in matters of the heart. I would leave. Take the opportunity to realize that, if there is no trust, there is no relationship. Find someone new on webdate. -T- Link to post Share on other sites
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