Friends..

[dprelz]

I've recently started talking with my ex girlfriend again after several long periods of NC. It seems like we do this every 3 months, where we catch up and get along great. And then, I mess it up by bringing up the past, or doing something pretty EMO. We've just been txting each other, but it feels great, like nothing has changed (at least for me).

 

I still love her (even though I havent seen her since NOV). I want to ask her if she has a boyfriend.. I want to ask her why she bought my mom a book while she was on vacation last week.. I want to ask her to see me for my birthday next week. .

 

I want to continue talking to her, because I really love it, and even texting her makes my life that much better. But I know everyday It hurts not being able to see her and being intimate. Should I just stick to being friends and being there for her? Is she just playing me? Someone give me a success story or tell me that eventually after being friends with her we will start to rebuild what broke..

[Yamaha]

Should I just stick to being friends and being there for her?

 

Not if you want more.

 

 

Is she just playing me?

 

I would ask her if she see's the two of you getting back together. Don't waste time if she still wants to be just friends. You are just setting yourself up for more NC if she doesn't want to rebuild your relationship ( including sex ). As much as you like her company it is only part of what you want and it may be all of her interest. You make the choice, not her.