mattea Posted May 26, 2006 Share Posted May 26, 2006 i'm in love with my guy but i don't think we're in the same place emotionally, which is hard. i ask him how he feels and he says he likes me, has fun with me, cares about me, and the relationship is important to him. he says he is "sensitive to the feelings between us". we're six months into the relationship. i guess it would be nice if we were bursting at the seams to express love to each other, but we're not. i have fallen in love with him, but i don't feel any huge urge to express it, especially given that i don't think he's really there yet. yet things are changing in our relationship. we spend more time together but send a lot less sweet emails saying hi. sex has dropped off a bit. i just feel like we're already moving into "been together for awhile and not so mad about each other" phase without even having expressed being in love yet. it's kind of weird for me. how has it worked for others? how long has it taken you to feel/express love? Link to post Share on other sites
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