QuikSilver210 Posted May 27, 2006 Share Posted May 27, 2006 Hey im a 16 male nearing the end of my sophmore year in highschool. Im a pretty down to earth guy, and I dont fall for the "peer pressure" bulls*** Its hard to explain what im trying to say...But girls in highschool seem so like two-faced and immature. I have some girlfriends that are complete bitches to me at sometimes. I dont want to explain situations because the list would be endless. They basically ditch me and my friends we have known eachother for 3-4 years for older senior guys they met like for 3 months. Those guys when they graduate this year arent going to give two s***s about them when they leave. And everytime we get in a fight its always us guys fault. When they pull low stuff like leaving us for older guys or whatever the situation we ignore it and dont say anything. If we were to do the same thing its the end of the world and we are "gay" for what we did. It seems like they are on a 24/7 PMS It drives me crazy at how girls can do something wrong and its "fine" and if we screw up or do the same thing its a frikin drama. For this reason I have never been in a relationship and Hate getting involved with girls. Are you guys highschool experiences like this to with girls? Link to post Share on other sites
hyakku Posted May 29, 2006 Share Posted May 29, 2006 ...what? How could they leave you and your friends for older guys if you have never been in a relationship? What you need my friend, is a total makeover like I went through. Me and you are about the same age, but my mindset is totally different. They go for older guys because they think they can offer them more than younger guys can, and generally they do, but not that well. Not things like cars, or money, but in the ways they make them feel. They feel older, mature, like women. Yet when I was 15 I could get 16 and 17 year old girls. Why? I knew what to do. And believe me I'm no "natural", I learned all I learned. From so many people. You have to shift your mindsets, you need to switch up your techniques, everything. If its not working your way, try a new way. I can't introduce you to the guys (20-30), who taught (and are still teaching me) me alot of s*** that I know not just about women but in general. Alot of times a father doesn't really know this, because many fathers are AFCs out there (average frustrated chumps). You need to meet guys who are really good, and not like the jocks and all that get by because of their social proof (not that they aren't great guys), but guys who have gotten a gameplan. All I can tell you is look up: David Deangelo Mystery (aka Erik Von Markovik) Neil Strauss (author of the game) Then meet guys, like I did (though this process was facilitated for me due to the fact that I work in telemarketing which is, I believe one of the greatest fields to meet guys who are successful with women, in fact any marketing is), and then start innovating for yourself. Quick lesson from David Deangelo, when you want to MASTER something do it in the following 5 step process: 1. Imitate the best until you are getting consistent results. 2. Make finer and finer distinctions until you can CLEARLY see why some things works and others don't. 3.(I believe three if I recally correctly) Create a values system. ASsign values to different things and why they are better in certain situations. 4. Create variations of already proven ideas. 5. Innovate. Most people flip this entire thing around. They try to invent their own thing, then they try to tweak it, then try to see what situations itll work in, then try to make distinctions why its not or is working, and finally they give up and start to copy a master until they finally understand it. Thats just a bit. I can't keep going on, just don't be so arrogant to think you don't need help. Try it out first. Link to post Share on other sites
Brittanyjean06 Posted May 30, 2006 Share Posted May 30, 2006 high school and middle schoo years are very hard, It's all about friends and what not, so they play a big part in your early stages of growing up! I'm a senior in high school( nearing graduation). High school to me is complete Bull c*rap, i had friend my freshmen and sophmore and some what of my junior year, but senior year is when you just look at everything and think, dang everyone is so stupid..well in my case I was Like. Don't worry your friends will a turn around point to where there gonna learn not to ditch people, as you. I don't relate to really any high school girls at all, I don't look at popularity as Anything and most kids in high school do. I think outside of high school, I reall am apathitc towards alot of things ( in high school that is). You'll make new friends who won't ditch you, and maybe try staying away from those catty girls, Girls tend to turn things around on guys, because its like guys are known to be the prime ones to blame! Things change in high school, constantly. Things always change for the better! They'll come along your way Hope this was too some degre of help! Link to post Share on other sites
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