stacey2005 Posted May 27, 2006 Share Posted May 27, 2006 I've put myself into a tricky situation that I'm not sure how to handle. My partner and I have been together for 2 years, engaged for the last 9 months. For the last 6 months we've been trying to have a baby with fertility help as I'm 42. Obviously this puts strain on any relationship and my partner has recently been finding it more and more difficult to have sex on the prescribed days. As a result, our normally healthy and happy sex life has become rather strained and lacking. A week ago, I found out that he has recently been active on a website dedicated to finding other sexual partners. I signed onto this website with a pseudonym and have engaged him in a rather explicit ongoing dialogue. Of course, he doesn't know its me and I'm not sure how to continue with this lie and what to do about an eventual meeting, should it happen. Should I keep quiet, confront him or trap him?? Or leave him for that matter... Please help! Any advice would be much appreciated Link to post Share on other sites
Blackdragon5095 Posted May 30, 2006 Share Posted May 30, 2006 LMAO !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! He cheating on you over the internet. If he looking for Ms. right and getting married to you. Then you should talk to him about this website. If he lies then break it off. Link to post Share on other sites
GreySands Posted May 30, 2006 Share Posted May 30, 2006 If he is willing to set a time and place to meet you, then I'd say he has blatantly crossed the line. If you don't go so far as to draw him out, you need to confront him about what he is doing and see how things work out. Good luck! Link to post Share on other sites
hollyhock407 Posted June 1, 2006 Share Posted June 1, 2006 If he is willing to set a time and place to meet you, then I'd say he has blatantly crossed the line. If you don't go so far as to draw him out, you need to confront him about what he is doing and see how things work out. Good luck! I'm in the same situation, but I'm married to him already! I just feel like crying. I gave up everything for him! Link to post Share on other sites
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