Fun2BMe Posted May 29, 2006 Share Posted May 29, 2006 oh well hopefully we can meet someone better~ much better! With sociopaths, they are so charming and likeable in the beginning therefore it is difficult to know who you are really meeting. Once you start to develop feelings for them, little by little their venom gets stronger and stronger. One moment they're Mr. Niceguy the next they are a callous monster. In the end you have to realize that they never had true feelings for you. After being with this type of monster you have to realize that it is hard to judge someone from the beginning. I hope I never enter in a type of relationship like that, hopefully we all don't repeat history , but if we can get over it I'm sure we can easily push that new person out of the way! It's never easy to push someone out of your life unless it is in the very early stages. With sociopaths they suck you in first then show their true colors. Some women take years to realize what type of person they are really with. Link to post Share on other sites
In Sync Posted May 29, 2006 Share Posted May 29, 2006 With sociopaths, they are so charming and likeable in the beginning therefore it is difficult to know who you are really meeting. Once you start to develop feelings for them, little by little their venom gets stronger and stronger. One moment they're Mr. Niceguy the next they are a callous monster. In the end you have to realize that they never had true feelings for you. After being with this type of monster you have to realize that it is hard to judge someone from the beginning. It's never easy to push someone out of your life unless it is in the very early stages. With sociopaths they suck you in first then show their true colors. Some women take years to realize what type of person they are really with. Makes me wonder how do they go throughout their life like this. It's like they never see themselves as having to change or grow because in order to grow you have to have empathy and compassion. I imagine unless there's divine intervention he will alwys look at himself as never having to change because everyone else is f'd up, he's perfect in his mnd. what you say is correct about they suck you in with the charm. I never would have imagined at first that this guy I was with could be this way. I wonder how many females are in relationships with these guys and think it's just normal behavior or they accept it. I also recall that I was not that eager to confess to my friends tha my lover was like this. I was too cofused and too embarassed. Link to post Share on other sites
Brittanyjean06 Posted May 29, 2006 Share Posted May 29, 2006 All my friends thought he treated me like pure crap, but the funny thing they didn't even know half the stories of what he had done to me. I wonder that to, but I think it does come back to them, I think in some ways they can realize some crap they have been doing, they will change for a little while but just get back to their same ways. I don't think they like to be around people who really call them out for it, and in my case I always did..but his manipulation got the best at me Now I'm still in some way indenial that I was dating one, but at the same time I know the truth.. It's almost been a year and sometimes it just feels like yesterday I was with him, so it just goes to show you for some people it takes so much time to actually see them for who they are. I was talking to someone and was like" wow its been 10 months and I'm not even close to over him" They said " dang there is something wrong with that" I'm like, just wait one day and you'll really see what I'm talking about, I new it would take this long ( and much longer) But the traits in our ex's are so obvious, if you even think to your self like" man what could compell some one to do that". It just also goes to show you that you can't even imagine doing to someone what they did to you, which meens you should back way far away ... I love looking stuff up on sociopaths, I am curious to read what I dealt with for two years...aren't you guys? One day they won't be able to get their way, and one day it will hit them...these people hate when they can't have what they want..and someone will show them that one day, they can't feel someone elses pain, but they sure as he** can feel their pain, and they will! and we will get stronger and better, and their still the same Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted June 15, 2006 Share Posted June 15, 2006 Oh my god. Yes. He ticks all the boxes. It was when i was 15 and i didnt realise for 3 months. Link to post Share on other sites
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