My life..

[Miut]

Hey, I'm new here at Love Shack and I'm here with a question that seems to bug me a lot. I've been with this girl for about amonth now. We went out in the past for about 3 months before she decided to cheat on me. A few weeks passed by after she did whats he did and she seemed to really miss me a lot. Then one day I decided to meet up with her and week spoke from late 7 p.m. to 11 p.m. She seemed to really care for me a lot. The first week was magical, but soon after it began to fade. Her kisses went from almost make out sessions to tap kissing, she doesn't cuddle on me anny more, she wouldn't let me touch her as often, she wouldn't tell me her deepest secrets like she used to and a lot of things I'd say would seem to get to her (annoy her). She also seems to talk about a certain guy. Like she borrows things from him a lot and most f the time she mentions his name.. During the AIDS walk she left me a side to talk to him, although she seemed to come back a few times nd she did ask me what was wrong.. she spent most of her time talking to him. Lately I've been depressed and she notices that. She asked me once if I was jealous of him and I told her no at first but then I ended up telling her the truth and she told me that all he was was just a nice guy.. ??@.@?? Maybe I'm getting a bit too jealous. Maybe I'm being a bit too overprotective but what confuses me is that lately she's been boosting her kisses. They went back to almost make out sessions and she wants me to go with her to certain places a lot. At times she does show that she cares for me. She seems to play around a lot with me and we seem to have a good time but I don't get her at times. Maybe we're both afraid and still thinking in the past.. like we can't really trust each other. I miss the old her, the one I fell in love with, I want things to be like the were in the past.. but I don't know anymore. There are certain things that'd I'd like to mention to her or ask her but I'm afraid. I lost her once and I'm afraid to lose her again. I have no clue what to do..

[westernxer]

If you take back a cheater, you get what you deserve, whatever that reward may be.

[Guest]

Canu make it a little clearer.. I get it but I just want to make sure I'm thinking right.. thanks for the tip though

[Solachica]

Things can never go back to the way they were...

 

There are certain things that'd I'd like to mention to her or ask her but I'm afraid. I lost her once and I'm afraid to lose her again. I have no clue what to do..

Ask her....if asking her means tht you wud lose her then you shud still ask.

Don't be in a relationship tht leaves you with doubts.

[Spitkicker]

to be honest she's playing you and the other guy for a fool...

 

and she's gonna get every little thing from both of you while she can...

 

and you know what is going to seriously end up happening? A fresh new dude will get into the picture and it's adios to the both of yall.

 

Cheaters never change... good luck to you bro.

[Yamaha]

She's not ready to committ to you. She likes you some but she also feels you will be around for her. If she truly cared she would not even take the chance of you thinking this friend and her have something because SHE CHEATED on YOU in the past. You can't rebuild a relationship and not listen to the others concerns. She knows you have fears but she won't put them to rest.

 

I would recommend ending the relationship because she is not ready to give you what you want and need from her. You have a part time g/f and that will never work. Time to find a girl who wants you all the time, as much as it will hurt you in the near term.