my girlfriend

[joe]

i need to know how to help my girlfriend, she is too jealous for me to handle anymore and it is putting a strain on our relationship. what can i do to help her, i really love her alot and want to help her get over this before i end up leaving her. another problem she/we are having is i think she just got lazy from not working for a while. she was laid off back in june and has worked some parttime jobs since then but nothing to help with bills. now i know there are alot of jobs out there but she seems to be real picky about what she wants to do. she says she don't want to spend eight hours a days doing something she don't like to do or being somewhere she don't want to be, but i think, but i don't know for sure if she just got lazy on me or what happened to her. she use to be a real go getter and worked all the time, and now nothing, just very little. what can i do to get her back on track again? i know this is two problems in one but i did not want to post them seperately, maybe i should of.

[velvet]

Tell her if she wants to work, than a partime job will fine with you. As long as the partime work is something she is intersted in, it should make her happy about going to work even if its only five hours a day every other day. Try to get her to talk about what she would like to do as far as careers, school, or if she would rather stay home. Be positive and dont show negative thoughts or it may cause her to be upset. She is being jealous because she wants more attention from you. Just as soon as you walk in the door from work if she greets you or if you feel welcomed as you come in. Be excited to be home and be grabby on her. Relax with her ask her how her day went and what she would like to do for the evening. If you can get in the mood, give her some sex. It will help her jealous spells. Tell she is beautiful. "Not if shes in a pair of house cleaning cloths or anything of that sort". But talk to her about how she looks, tell her you feel happy to come home from work and see her smiling face. Tell her all about your day at work. "Not an hours worth". And on some ocasions dont forget the flowers on your way home from work. If being a sweet man does not work for the women than your stuck with a jealous women. My mother was one and I swore I would never end up with her emotions. Although I do have some Im lucky to say I dont torture myself with jealousy.

i need to know how to help my girlfriend, she is too jealous for me to handle anymore and it is putting a strain on our relationship. what can i do to help her, i really love her alot and want to help her get over this before i end up leaving her. another problem she/we are having is i think she just got lazy from not working for a while. she was laid off back in june and has worked some parttime jobs since then but nothing to help with bills. now i know there are alot of jobs out there but she seems to be real picky about what she wants to do. she says she don't want to spend eight hours a days doing something she don't like to do or being somewhere she don't want to be, but i think, but i don't know for sure if she just got lazy on me or what happened to her. she use to be a real go getter and worked all the time, and now nothing, just very little. what can i do to get her back on track again? i know this is two problems in one but i did not want to post them seperately, maybe i should of.