Guest Posted May 31, 2006 Share Posted May 31, 2006 Ill try to keep it short and brief. So basically ive been talking to this girl that goes to the same school as me and also dorms. Weve been talking about all kind of stuff and theres plenty of touching and eyecontact between us. She gives off alot of interest. The last day of the semester we were watching a movie and ended up sleeping together. No sex, just feeling each other up and what not. Its been like 3 weeks since school was over and were still talking on line and on the phone. She calls most of the time or txt me. We were planning to go to the movies and i guess i forgot to call her were we going to meet up and so she txted me late at night about the plans. The next day when i met her she totally changed. I already know that it was going to be bad because on the way to the theater she had her arms crossed and wouldnt even playfully touch me or anything. I tried to make fun of her in a funny way and basically just acted like myself but i got like the opposite reaction on what i usually do. Same in the theater. At the end she didnt want to do anything else, not shopping and not even to go eat. I didnt feel like just eating by myself so we just started to walk around. At this point i have no clue on what to do and i was prabably boring her but she had no interest at the whole thing whatsoever. So i took her home and that was it. This is like the second time ive seen her since college ended. We talked on aim and the same thing happend, no interest whatsoever. She said she had to go only after like 30 min and we usually talk for easily over 2 hours. Did i upset her or anything, was i suppose to call. i have no idea whats going on Link to post Share on other sites
Javelin Posted June 1, 2006 Share Posted June 1, 2006 Well, you have a second chance! You're very lucky she hung out with you after you, 'forgot' to call! First apologize to her, believe me it helps! Secondly, realize your mistake! We were planning to go to the movies and i guess i forgot to call her She probably believes you ditched her to be with someone else. Basically, this early in a progressive friendship means your actions should be flawless. So with your mistake, now she's upset with you. This means you have to take the initiative and make it up to her. What would I do, if I were in your situation? Well for starters: I'd plan another night out with her, a romanic night somewhere with the intentions of taking her mind off the entire ordeal. Make sure you're not aggressive and keep your hands to yourself! Keep in mind, you dont have to wine and dine her, just be creative. At the moment you're trying to keep her interested at all costs. Umm, the rest is up to you bro. Good luck! Link to post Share on other sites
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