Guest Posted May 31, 2006 Share Posted May 31, 2006 my situation is this. I'm 19 and graduated from high school about a year ago. there was this girl i went to school with then in my class who i have had strong feelings for and still do. I wanted to tell her so much that i thought she was the most beautiful, sensitive, caring, intelligent woman i have ever met, but i never could because i considered her a friend, and in high school, i was afraid that if i opened up to her, then i would alienate her from me altogether. so i never did tell her. we graduated, and the last time i saw her was at graduation. i stayed close to home in cincinnati for college, and she went to Harvard. It's now one year after my high school years ended, and i still feel so strongly about her. i want now to tell her how i feel. we talked some over facebook during this year, but not much. i want to just tell her how i feel, but i'm not sure how to go about it, or how to even get her to meet me without potentially scaring her away. Look, i'd like to have relationship with her, but if i don't, then that is the way it has to be. i don't know if she's dating anyone now, but if she isn't, i'd like to be the guy. But i want her to know how i feel even if she says no to the dating, so that i at least won't regret this forever. i could contact her over IM, but, again, i don't want to scare her. What do i do? How do i handle this whole thing? Link to post Share on other sites
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