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Hugging - Did he cross the line


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Yes he is married, i am single. (yes i've posted about him before)

I've always seen him as a mere acquaintance. Yes am attracted to him but don't really want to go down that path.

Anyway because we live and work close to one another avoidance isn't possible as we are always bumping into one another when we engage in chit chat, that is all its ever been.

 

anyway the other day doing a few errands he came up to me when he saw me wrapped his arms round me and gave me the most intense hug ever. He was hugging so close that i could feel his lips against my neck (not an actual kiss though) this was the first time he had hugged me and it took me by surprise as i never expected it. And his hands were caressing my back.

 

I've been thinking did he cross the line here, would his wife have been ok if she seen us. I don't know because he is in general a friendly/flirty guy.

 

What do you think?

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SmittenSexyKitten

I think you are posting in the incorrect place. You should be posting in the Other Man/ Woman site. It is for "Support and discussion for those who find themselves involved with a committed partner". Here is the linkhttp://www.loveshack.org/forums/f57/

 

Since that is the direction you are heading in you might receive better input there.

 

You are well aware that the line has been crossed.

You are well aware that your interactions with him are grossly inappropriate.

You are well aware that if this was your significant other you would be hurt by this.

 

Shame on you

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sounds to me like he is flirting and maybe running into you on purpose just to see you. I understand bumping into your neighbors once in a while, but come on, what is he on the same schedule as you? doubt it.....

If this continues you should have a talk with him and tell him that you don't feel comftarable.

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Delectable
You are well aware that the line has been crossed.

You are well aware that your interactions with him are grossly inappropriate.

You are well aware that if this was your significant other you would be hurt by this.

absolutely!

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