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too_nervous

Right, some of you might not beleive this.

 

im 23 and i have never had a girlfriend. so obviously i am still a virgin. ive asked a few girls out but never had any success. i havent got any self-confidence and i am wondering if i am alone in this situation.

 

im not really complaining about my life because i do enjoy my life but i must admit sometimes i do get very lonely and i do wonder what it would be like to have a partner.

 

am i strange?

 

Daniel

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KittenMoon

I knew/know plenty of guys your age in this situation. Several of them are finally coming into their own and finding themselves dating. Just keep trying.

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too_nervous

Many Thanks. i will keep trying but i havnt got any self confidence anymore due to the amount of rejections.

 

Daniel

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KittenMoon

I definitely have a friend like you, but 1-2 years older. Rejection after rejection after rejection, all through college and beyond.

 

But he just landed his first GF a few months back, so it does happen. It does.

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Try online dating. Even if you don't plan on going out with lots of girls, it's a great way to build confidence.

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littlekitty
Try online dating. Even if you don't plan on going out with lots of girls, it's a great way to build confidence.

 

Very much agree with this. You can work on your conversation skills, build confidence and get some experience. :bunny:

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i'll be 23 in august and im pretty much in the same boat as you except i have not really been rejected time after time. It's probably because we are shy but im getting better at talking but i have little experience in relationships. Here's my advice start working out and reading books find something that can be a hobby and work on becoming confident it seems to be working for me.

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