unsafe Posted June 1, 2006 Share Posted June 1, 2006 I know this is weird. I am with a guy who has gotten down and dirty with his brother and his girlfriend. There was one time they did it without the brother. The brother doesn't know. But I do. It was before I came into the picture. Or so I hope. But now I am feeling all weird because I am falling for this guy hard. But I'm afraid that inside he has deeper feelings for the girl but can't have her so is moving on. Or maybe it was one of those things you get yourself into. He got out and is trying to move on. But I can't help to worry, and be jealous when he interacts with her now. Before it didn't bother me but now that I like him so much I can't stop thinking about it. I will not share! I believe I need to sit down and talk to him about this. But we have only been together for a month. But I don't want my feelings to grow stronger if one day down the road she decides she wants to sleep with him again and lets him know. Will he take the offer or not? I mean to do it again without the brother/boyfriend there means it got to an emotional level. right? Can anyone help me ease my troubled mind? The girl tells me its over, she is in love with her man and doesn't want the brother it was a stupid mistake. But she could just be telling me this. Who knows? Maybe she has a thing for both and doesn't want to share either. There must be something this girl has. How do I over ride it? or can I? Link to post Share on other sites
SmittenSexyKitten Posted June 1, 2006 Share Posted June 1, 2006 When somebody shows you who they are...believe them. Do you really want someone that will stab his brother in the back? If he would do that to his blood brother - who he loves unconditionally - how loyal will he be to a girlfriend. You are in for a world of hurt. You have been warned...create your own mistakes but don't be surprised. Link to post Share on other sites
Bryanp Posted June 1, 2006 Share Posted June 1, 2006 I agree with the above poster. If he had no problem stabbing his brother behind his back, he will have no problem being disloyal to you. I would inform the brother what you know. Link to post Share on other sites
reservoirdog1 Posted June 1, 2006 Share Posted June 1, 2006 I'm just thinking of all the guys out there who WOULDN'T f*** their brother's GF behind his back. Surely at least one of them is compatible with you. Get out now and get over the pain (since you're falling for this guy). It'll be a lot easier now than in a year or two, when he cheats on YOU. Link to post Share on other sites
theantibarbie23 Posted June 2, 2006 Share Posted June 2, 2006 I have just one thing to say to you: RUN!!! Link to post Share on other sites
catgirl1927 Posted June 2, 2006 Share Posted June 2, 2006 He had a threesome with his brother? I am thinking you can probably do better than this. It sounds like a Jerry Springer episode waiting to explode everywhere, and you will NEVER get that s*** out of your carpet. Link to post Share on other sites
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