I need an excuse as to why I need to be out all night?

[LadyEyes]

Hey all,

 

I don't know exactly if anyone will approve of this post but I guess it's worth a shot.

 

I need a reason to give to my parents why I will be stopping out all night.

 

The reason being is, me and my boyfriend want to spend a night together. Obviously my parents will not approve of this. I am 17 ... will be 18 in a few weeks. I am mature and I never usually take a sneaky route, but this night will mean a lot to me. It's very special for me and I just need a reason.

 

I just wondered if you could help me out? I wont have to sneak around so mcuh after my 18th. I just want to spend the night with him.

 

Thanks for reading anyway,

 

Ash

[johan]

Are you asking for us to contribute to the delinquency of a minor? I think not, young lady. You should be safely at home, in bed at a decent hour.

[amaysngrace]

How about saying you'll be at a girlfriend's house for the night? Could that work possibly? Not that I'VE ever done anything like that....I was a model teenager....but I had this friend....

[LadyEyes]

Are you asking for us to contribute to the delinquency of a minor? I think not, young lady. You should be safely at home, in bed at a decent hour.

 

I didn't think it would go down to well. I'm practically an adult and I was honest on my post and explained why I needed a reason.

 

I know my intentions look bad, I just want to spend some quality time with my other half thats all.

 

Sorry.

[2sunny]

I didn't think it would go down to well. I'm practically an adult and I was honest on my post and explained why I needed a reason.

 

I know my intentions look bad, I just want to spend some quality time with my other half thats all.

 

Sorry.

 

You have waited this long honey, why not be patient just a bit longer? Easier on the conscience and legal too.

 

You shouldn't need to be in a hurry if you have to sneak!

Just my opinion...

[dgiirl]

lol this reminds me of the time my then ldr bf came to visit me. My parents met him and knew he was staying at a motel, which I drove him too. We went to check him in, and then checked out the room. We then fell asleep in the motel room. Litterally, we both fell asleep without doing anything. But at 3am we woke up and I started freaking out. My parents didnt appreciated that very much, nor did they really believe me when I said we only fell asleep! But hey, atleast i was over 18 I hate getting in trouble for not even DOING anything

[HokeyReligions]

If you can't be honest with your parents, in whose home you live, then you don't sound mature enough to spend the night away. What difference is it going to make to you to wait a few weeks until you are 18? Show your parents some respect and either be honest or stay home. They'll figure out where you are and what you are doing anyway -- if they don't already know. Why add a lie?

[johan]

A girlfriend and I snuck away and got a hotel room once. We were both over 18. I have no idea how we explained it. I'm not sure either of our parents even asked.

[climbergirl]

The fact that you want to spend the night with your b/f when you are only 2 weeks from being 18 doesn't strike me as being abnormal or immature............

 

 

..however, asking 'how to' on a forum kind of tells me something. It tells me that your parents will know in a second that you're lying. I'm not judging--just letting you know.

[kitten chick]

If you're about to turn 18 then you're an adult and my opinion is that you should live your life the way you see fit. Whether you want to lie to your parents or not is your decision. I personally wish that I snuck out more to see my boyfriend in high school, I regret not taking more risks in my youth. The simple excuse is saying that you're staying at a girlfriend's house for the night, just make sure that you have a friend that will cover for you.

[whichwayisup]

You have to earn your parents trust. Start helping out around the house more, doing chores without them asking you first.

 

Bring your boyfriend around more, so they can get to know him better. Include him in family gatherings and dinners. I'm sure once they get more comfortable with him being a big part of your life - THEN you bring up the subject with your folks about you two spending alone time together.

 

Just a thought or two to think about.

 

I speak from experience, lying to your folks about where you're staying is playing with fire. If something happens, llike an emergency and they need to get hold of you (Trust me on this one, IT does happen!) and then they call you at your girl friend's place and you're not there - Oh man, that just brings so much trouble...I covered for a friend and her mom called MY house looking for her. My folks told her mom she wasn't at our house. 5 seconds later I was on the phone getting hold of my friend to tell her what happened. Then I got grounded for 'lying' for my friend. So, just beware of what COULD go wrong...

[Sand&Water]

Hey all,

 

I don't know exactly if anyone will approve of this post but I guess it's worth a shot.

 

I need a reason to give to my parents why I will be stopping out all night.

 

The reason being is, me and my boyfriend want to spend a night together. Obviously my parents will not approve of this. I am 17 ... will be 18 in a few weeks. I am mature and I never usually take a sneaky route, but this night will mean a lot to me. It's very special for me and I just need a reason.

 

I just wondered if you could help me out? I wont have to sneak around so mcuh after my 18th. I just want to spend the night with him.

 

Thanks for reading anyway,

 

Ash

 

Your parents have excellent reason as to why you shouldn't be going out all night with your boyfriend. Your parents know what's best for you.

 

I know, the statement above is truely cliche in every sense but that's the truth.

 

Any parent with a young girl as you, would do the same. You're still a minor, no matter how mature you are.

 

Listen to your parents, and stay within curfew time. They have good intentions anyway.

 

By the way, what would you do with your boyfriend at such hours?

 

As you grow older, you'll gain a wiser perspective.