Woggle Posted June 6, 2006 Share Posted June 6, 2006 When I look at this forum it seems like the good husbands are the ones that get shafted. You can be the perfect husband but if your wife one day decides to find herself or doesn't want to be married anymore it doesn't matter. What do men even get out of this? I honestly feel that the jerks and players are the smart ones because they end up winning. Link to post Share on other sites
Tim'sAngel Posted June 6, 2006 Share Posted June 6, 2006 Bla bla bla... Bla bla, bla blaaa bla... Funny, I see words, but they don't say anything... Hmm. Link to post Share on other sites
bab Posted June 6, 2006 Share Posted June 6, 2006 Woggle, I thought you'd gotten over this. Does this mean you are planning to be an ass of a husband? Does your fiance know that you think the jerks are the smart ones? Link to post Share on other sites
a4a Posted June 6, 2006 Share Posted June 6, 2006 Damn Woggle call off the wedding already.... because you know you will end up shafted too! Keep in mind that the men posting their sad stories are telling only their side of it. Just like any OP. Very few want to make themselves out to look like any bit of marriage or relationship failure could be partially their fault. But of course all men will just end up the victim of some woman eventually. Link to post Share on other sites
Tim'sAngel Posted June 6, 2006 Share Posted June 6, 2006 Oh come on people are you really gonna fall for yet another desperate attempt for attention? It's obvious we are going to see one of these women bashing posts at least once or twice a week. Link to post Share on other sites
kitten chick Posted June 6, 2006 Share Posted June 6, 2006 What was your purpose in starting this thread? Link to post Share on other sites
catgirl1927 Posted June 6, 2006 Share Posted June 6, 2006 "Look at me!! I'm Woggle, and I hate all women!!!!" $5 says this thread goes to 5 pages or more. Link to post Share on other sites
JackJack Posted June 6, 2006 Share Posted June 6, 2006 Dude, I'm not even married yet, but will be in the fall. Don't put a damper on my happiness man. Some people shouldn't be married, maybe you are one of them. I don't mean that in a rude way either, I'm being serious, some people shouldn't marry. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Woggle Posted June 6, 2006 Author Share Posted June 6, 2006 Dude, I'm not even married yet, but will be in the fall. Don't put a damper on my happiness man. Some people shouldn't be married, maybe you are one of them. I don't mean that in a rude way either, I'm being serious, some people shouldn't marry. Better get a prenup because she will probably leave you in the long run. Link to post Share on other sites
JackJack Posted June 6, 2006 Share Posted June 6, 2006 Better get a prenup because she will probably leave you in the long run. Come on woggle get some self esteem man. A marriage is what you make it. If you expect it to be crappy and fail, it probably will. Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted June 6, 2006 Share Posted June 6, 2006 What do men even get out of this? Men generally have more to lose in a marriage situation than women do. Even the courts are baised against men in divorces. Before marriage the man usually has the upper-hand....after marriage its usually the woman who does. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Woggle Posted June 6, 2006 Author Share Posted June 6, 2006 Come on woggle get some self esteem man. A marriage is what you make it. If you expect it to be crappy and fail, it probably will. I have plenty of self esteem. I am getting married myself because I love her. If it were up to me we would just shack up but she wants to get married. Link to post Share on other sites
Art_Critic Posted June 6, 2006 Share Posted June 6, 2006 A perfect husband in a perfect marriage doesn't come to a relationship forum.. You are only seeing that the perfect husbands that get shafted because they are in distress and come get help here on LS.. You also only here his side.. I'll bet 10-1 that if the bitch wife posted alongside the perfect husband that you might change your mind about how perfect he really is Link to post Share on other sites
kitten chick Posted June 6, 2006 Share Posted June 6, 2006 I'm just going to keep asking until it gets answered. What was your purpose in starting this thread? Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted June 6, 2006 Share Posted June 6, 2006 If it were up to me we would just shack up but she wants to get married. then why is she getting her way? you should tell her that you two either shack up or you'll be hitting the road... f*** that marriage bulls*** man! Link to post Share on other sites
JackJack Posted June 6, 2006 Share Posted June 6, 2006 I have plenty of self esteem. I am getting married myself because I love her. If it were up to me we would just shack up but she wants to get married. So you are getting married because you love her but NOT because YOU want to? People can be inlove and not get married as you said. So you are already going into a marraige wrong. Thats fine if SHE wants to, but if YOU don't, TWO people don't, then the point is what? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Woggle Posted June 6, 2006 Author Share Posted June 6, 2006 So you are getting married because you love her but NOT because YOU want to? People can be inlove and not get married as you said. So you are already going into a marraige wrong. Thats fine if SHE wants to, but if YOU don't, TWO people don't, then the point is what? I really don't want to marry her but I don't want to lose her and has agreed to sign a prenup that allows an easy escape if things go sour. Link to post Share on other sites
JackJack Posted June 6, 2006 Share Posted June 6, 2006 I really don't want to marry her but I don't want to lose her and has agreed to sign a prenup that allows an easy escape if things go sour. Why not be honest with her and tell her love her but you don't care to get married? Or has this been discussed and she insists marriage is the way to go? Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted June 6, 2006 Share Posted June 6, 2006 I really don't want to marry her but I don't want to lose her and has agreed to sign a prenup that allows an easy escape if things go sour. Dude, don't do this...if you don't want to marry her and you do marry her your divorce chances will be 99%. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Woggle Posted June 6, 2006 Author Share Posted June 6, 2006 Why not be honest with her and tell her love her but you don't care to get married? Or has this been discussed and she insists marriage is the way to go? Well she is 41 and this will be her first marriage so I guess she may be tired of waiting. Link to post Share on other sites
Art_Critic Posted June 6, 2006 Share Posted June 6, 2006 Dude, don't do this...if you don't want to marry her and you do marry her your divorce chances will be 99%. I not only agree with this.. but believe it to be the best advice ever given to Woggle.. I think some pre marriage counseling might be in order Woggle Link to post Share on other sites
hotgurl Posted June 6, 2006 Share Posted June 6, 2006 If you don't want to be married tell her and let her find someone who does. It is quite obvious from your post that you have no idea what marriage is about and hat you hate women. Let her go find her happiness. Link to post Share on other sites
a4a Posted June 6, 2006 Share Posted June 6, 2006 Well she is 41 and this will be her first marriage so I guess she may be tired of waiting. Well if she has been waiting for this long does she not deserve a man that really wants to marry her? Link to post Share on other sites
Tim'sAngel Posted June 6, 2006 Share Posted June 6, 2006 I have plenty of self esteem. I am getting married myself because I love her. If it were up to me we would just shack up but she wants to get married. Hey Wog, I have a solution. Just show her some of your threads, I'm sure that would change her mind about marriage really really quick Link to post Share on other sites
JackJack Posted June 6, 2006 Share Posted June 6, 2006 Well if she has been waiting for this long does she not deserve a man that really wants to marry her? I agree. You are entering into a marraige that you don't really want. There will be resentment there at some point after you are married which will cause major problems. As a matter of fact I think there already is resentment, because you are doing something you don't truly want to do. Don't do something you don't want to do. Link to post Share on other sites
Recommended Posts