tiff2006 Posted June 6, 2006 Share Posted June 6, 2006 [sIZE=3]Complaints: Tuesday, June 6, 2006 9:53am Bruce stalking me, knowing how long and when I’ve been to the Starbucks on East State Street. Asking Stephanie (our neighbor) questions about me. Asking people at Brayden’s school questions about me. Things missing from the house since I was rewarded temp possession of our house: Crystal, digital camera, dvd camcorder, home computer w/cables, wires, and internet modem. (All missing after court session) Over $10000.00 gone?? That what Bruce says, it’s just gone! Bruce is having boy’s counselor mail me ½ bill from co-pay of their sessions. Can he do that?? Can he be billed for vet bills from the dogs? He found out my password for my wireless internet acct. in my name, and searched through my information. Bruce tried to cancel my Sprint cell phone account, (my name only) on-line, and found out all my info. He told me that I had a 400 min. pkg. And mobile to mobile minutes… He tried to close out Brenden’ savings account, through my name! Still getting harassed, when I pick up my temp. maintenance check, or by phone, and voice mails too. Where’s my laptop? Bruce told me I would NOT get it back until the judge writes it in the ORDER! He still owes my dad over $600.00 for cell phone bill back in March 2006. He tried to cancel my friend’s airfare ticket on-line. Leaving messages, either on voice mail for Brenden and Brayden to tell me to contact him. He canceled our Charter Communications Internet High Speed account and put a pin# on it, so I would have no access, and with this, now I cannot get my own account through them. I need my Internet to job search on-line since the boys are out of school. Now I need to drive ½ hour away, to borrow my dad’ Internet, also borrowing: his laptop, and modem. Please have ALL guns and ammunition removed from house, immediately! Anyone else with similar issues?? Please post your complaints here: Love to see all!! [/sIZE][sIZE=4] [/sIZE] Link to post Share on other sites
Ladyjane14 Posted June 6, 2006 Share Posted June 6, 2006 How long have you been separated from your husband? Did you file for divorce before or after you began an online affair with another man? I don't think it's unnatural for your husband to respond negatively if he perceives your conduct to be adulterous. Certainly, he shouldn't have to pay for your internet service if you're using it to further along an extramarital relationship. Most folks, who feel betrayed are going to try to preserve their family's lifestyle as best they can. I'm not sure it's realistic to expect your husband to be supportive if he is faced with an unwanted divorce. Your best bet would probably be to engage an attorney and try to be as cooperative in the divorce process as possible. Neglect is one thing. Adultery is another. Depending on what state you live in.... negotiated settlement might be in your best interest, and would most likely be the path of least resistance. Link to post Share on other sites
iron_m Posted June 6, 2006 Share Posted June 6, 2006 You were/are having a relationship with another man and your husband does not feel like financing that. On the other side, using your name and closing your accounts is his bad. Is it not possible in your case to talk to him? try to reach to some agreement? Resort to a mediator, for example. Settle on a property division and support for the kids? Just have in mind that you can not pretend that your husband will be financing your romance and you can not let him control your life (no matter if you are still married or not). For example: closing your accounts is wrong wether you are still together or divorced. And having the affair was your fault. You should have service at your name and (at most) get spousal support if that is pertinent, but you can not pretend that he will be financing all your activities. and paying all your bills just because you think he has to. Regarding the laptop, you said in the other thread that you gave it back to him... (maybe I am wrong). Link to post Share on other sites
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