wumbo6 Posted June 7, 2006 Share Posted June 7, 2006 there is this girl i really really like. it started about 2 months ago, she started talking me online like everyday until 12 oclock on weekdays, and super late on weekends. but lately she has been signing off really early and i dont feel her as much as i did before. so have i lost her? did i wait too long? i think about her way too much, probably more than it is healthy. i really want to tell her how i feel about her but i really dont know what is classified as the "right time". am i supposed to tell her over the phone or something? yesterday her friend came up to me and was like "do you have a thing for her?" i did a sarcastic "oh yea, definately" and i think she may have taken it the wrong way. oh gosh, please help me! Link to post Share on other sites
j.carsey Posted June 7, 2006 Share Posted June 7, 2006 Wow you internet kids and your electronics induced problems! You're going to have to see her IN PERSON. If you're chatting online say to her, let's go meet for coffee (or grab lunch together). Something very casual like that, it's not a date. Your invitation to do something like this shows that you have some amount of interest in her, so if she got the wrong idea from your sarcasm this will fix that. You'll also get to see how she feels about you. Does she refuse to meet up? Say later (that may be ok, perhaps too busy these days). Or perhaps you'll get an enthusiastic reply which is the best. Anyway go try it out Link to post Share on other sites
Author wumbo6 Posted June 7, 2006 Author Share Posted June 7, 2006 oh silly me, im a sophmore in high school. haha im sorry. i see her like everyday. are there any other non-date kind of activities? thanks for your response Link to post Share on other sites
j.carsey Posted June 7, 2006 Share Posted June 7, 2006 You see her daily! Well that's easier. I wasn't sure what you were asking. Do you want to check to see if she's still friendly to you? Or do you think it's time to clue her in that you're more seriously attracted? You're going to have to do this at some point, man. As for what's a good time: #1 she should already be smiling and in a good mood. #2 neither you nor her should be in a rush to get anywhere. #3 avoid times when she is distressed or stressed, like if she is sick, writing tests. If you are able to find some place where the two of you can talk alone privately then talk to her at school. Smile a lot. Then I would say something like: I like talking with you. Do you want to hang out more often? This isn't as corny as asking out on a date but it will show that you are very interested. If she likes what you say it leaves the door open to anything else. I don't know if she is a shy girl but if she is, her answer might not be very clear (um ok maybe) but that's not a bad thing. Link to post Share on other sites
Author wumbo6 Posted June 8, 2006 Author Share Posted June 8, 2006 do i just pull her aside or something? we usually see each other for a couple minutes after school but we have a HUGE group of friends there too. so how would i do this casual like. i was also wondering since we get out of school in a week or so should i wait until the stress of final exams are over before i spill my heart? but then again i wont be able to see her in person. aww man. Link to post Share on other sites
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