oannamarie Posted June 7, 2006 Share Posted June 7, 2006 I posted a couple of days ago about my husbands strange behavior since he started work. Yesterday he started a fight over the most outrageous thing. I have a mustang which is souped up and is kind of loud which I drive to work in the mornings. It must have woke the neighbors children up whom my husband is best friends with. My husband started an argument over how I am inconsiderate and I woke the neighbors kids up, last night. What am I suppose to do I have to get to work. I told him that I cant control how loud the car is and that I dont realy care that I woke the neighbors kids up. My neighbor and I arent exactly on good terms. He is an alcoholic that calls about once a week at 1:00 in the morning asking for my husband to come pick him up. He wakes our kids up then. My husband never thinks of that though. He told me that he thinks less of me and that I am disrespectful. He is not sure if he wants to be with someone so uncaring. Was I wrong? I mean, I cant control the sound of my car. Because of the fight which was over nothing, my husband didnt kiss me good night or speak to me this morning. Any advice? Link to post Share on other sites
AManWithTroubles Posted June 7, 2006 Share Posted June 7, 2006 It sounds like both of you need to grow up. Suped up Mustangs? You have kids? You don't like your neighbors? It's time to start acting more family like, and you both need to rid yourself of all the extra drama. It's unneccessary. Link to post Share on other sites
Author oannamarie Posted June 7, 2006 Author Share Posted June 7, 2006 Just because I have a mustang doesnt qualify me acting like a kid. I dont like my neighbor because he is a drunk, hits on me and gives my husband drugs. You should probably read my other post. I wasnt the one who started the argument anyway. I was looking for advice. Not criticism on how I am acting like a kid. Your advise sound to me like you are the kid. Link to post Share on other sites
AManWithTroubles Posted June 7, 2006 Share Posted June 7, 2006 You and your husband are surrounding yourself with negative influences. That's what I am saying. I am saying the both of you, because you must make decisions together as a team now. Get him on the same team, if you really want out of the situation. And I still think that driving a loud Mustang around as a parent and wife is sorta childish. I can't help it if that offends you, but it's time to be more resposible. It's not even an efficient vehicle. Maybe if you had enough money to have a Mustang as a second, recreational vehicle, I would find it alright. But as a means of daily transportation, that's teenager behavior. I would tell my wife straight up no if she requested such a vehicle. Besides the fact that Fords suck. As a matter of fact, she wanted one of the new Dodge Chargers, but once I saw the gas mileage on those things, I put my foot down and said no way. Link to post Share on other sites
Author oannamarie Posted June 7, 2006 Author Share Posted June 7, 2006 I have had the mustang since I was a teenager. I cant afford a new car. Link to post Share on other sites
AManWithTroubles Posted June 7, 2006 Share Posted June 7, 2006 Ahh, well, I apologize then, about the vehicle. I do understand that problem quite well. But you all do need to rid yourself of these neighbors, and other negative influences. I don't know how, but they appear to be a distraction in your attempt at building a functional family. Link to post Share on other sites
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