Have I been cheated

[Mustache]

Dear all

 

I get married in 1990

I never had problem with her until 1995

She was a woman who didn´t like sex too much and used to have

anger crises sometimes (bipolar disorder)

 

In 1995, she started a phone friendship with Bill, a police man from 911, who

was help her to solve a little neighbor argue

 

I used to work in a city 40 miles away

I only got home only at week ends

 

On a sunday at 5pm, I heard she into the bathroom, on the wireless phone talking to Bill

 

When I got close, she just hung up the phone and looked at me very scared

She refused to comment about that and got depressed for 4 months

 

In 2001, already in another city she had a severe anger crisis and we argued a lot

 

She said:

 

Do you really wanna know ?

 

” I had sexual relation with Bill, because I loved him “

 

The fact of the said “ because I loved him” let me very confused

 

I suffered a lot because I was very faithful to her , never cheated her

 

In 2004 I started to cheat her, and I cheat her until now as revenge

 

My question is:

 

”If you were me, would you believe this woman really cheated you ?”

 

Thanks

 

Mustache

[JadeStar]

If she told you she cheated then I guess she did. Not sure why she would tell you that unless it was true. Unless she did it for spite or to make you jealous. 2 wrongs don't make a right by you cheating as well. I understand you are upset, but do you think marraige counseling might help you both? Do you feel this is a fixable situation? If so get into some marriage counseling. You both sound kind of young, may I ask your ages?

 

 

 

Jade