Guest Posted June 8, 2006 Share Posted June 8, 2006 I want some straight, honest, unbiased advice about this. My friend linked me to a post on a forum where a girl posted photos of herself in a swimsuit and asked other forum users which one she should keep. Well, my boyfriend is a part of this forum, and he posted things like "damn I forgot to save the pics, but they still exist in my head" and "those boxers look really inviting, damn hot". My initial reaction was !!!!!!!!!! so I wrote him a nasty e-mail. Haven't heard from him since, and though I was feeling sassy and flirty at first, now I just feel sad and disgruntled. My boyfriend and I just celebrated two years together. We've had our little tiffs and disagreements, but for the most part it's been nothing but laughs and loves. Just as a background, my boyfriend is very jealous and possessive of me. He also tells me often how he finds my combination of beauty and brains potent and irresistable, and he's well aware of my throng of crazed admirers. It really bothers him that I have so many guy friends, and that guys are always trying to talk to me online...and yes I do talk back. He considers this far more grave than telling someone they look hot, but I think what he said was a little too disgustingly appreciative. Hot is one thing, but did he really have to sound like a sex-deprived 19-year old? Or maybe he was just teasing/being extremely flirty? Do you guys think I am crazy and need to take a chill pill? Or am I justified in feeling upset? Link to post Share on other sites
JadeStar Posted June 8, 2006 Share Posted June 8, 2006 IMO, if you have guy friends that you talk to online, then his reply to that forum was probably like you calling the kettle black. However, I don't know what it is you talk with your guy friends about. That is assuming you flirt with them or tell them things your b/f knows nothing about. I do think girls can have guy friends and guys can have girl friends, you shouldn't just drop those friends just becasue you are in a relationship unless there are some lines being crossed. Do you think maybe he responded to this girls post, because he knows you talk with these guy friends and it makes him mad? If you haven't heard from him, maybe you need to call him and talk with him about things. Find out where things stand. If this is a workable situation for you all, then maybe you could back of talking to your guy friends so much. I think thats what it is that might bother him. Jade Link to post Share on other sites
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