What Not To Do If She Dumps You

[luvtoto]

...i made almost all the mistakes which done has described above....can u tell me why she rejected me?

Sounds like *you* got serious with her way too fast. That probably scared her off.

 

Maybe she didn't want to be the center-of-your-world immediately...if ever.

 

I know I wouldn't like that. It would creep me out.

 

I need to be able to respect my partner in order to be with him. If the respect is gone, so am I.

[alamalmo]

luvtoto...thanks for ur views..!!!

[Guest]

Woman dont want a guy whos needs them.

 

 

Almost sounds contradictory doesnt it. Life is really funny in this aspect.

if you wanna keep someone, pretend you dont.

 

How dumb!

 

But i guess its the way.

 

 

OH YEAH! For example, in the book Why Men Marry Bitches, the author says that if women are too nice, do everything they want, and don't seem to be their own boss, men get bored because there's no longer any challenge. My "ex" of six weeks sent me that article yesterday, and I was really steamed, as I have instituted a NC and have been following it. However, I HAD asked him to define what me meant by the emotional attachment, since the lack of it was the reason he gave for breaking up with me. Maybe sending the article was his way of replying, since he refused to answer the question at the time I asked it.

 

I'm not sure I want him back, because my life is going fine without him.

[whir]

Sounds like *you* got serious with her way too fast. That probably scared her off.

 

Maybe she didn't want to be the center-of-your-world immediately...if ever.

 

I know I wouldn't like that. It would creep me out.

 

I need to be able to respect my partner in order to be with him. If the respect is gone, so am I.

 

agreed ..no girls like needy,desperate guys..its usually scare grils away...

 

specialy stalkers...