lannhalsted Posted June 9, 2006 Share Posted June 9, 2006 I've been with my BF for 4 and a half years. We have a 1 year old son and I have a 10 year old daughter from a previous relationship who thinks of him as her her dad. I love him so much and I know that he loves me. I've been ready to get married for a couple of years, however, my BF says he's not ready. Recently we were discussing our oppinions about marriage and he said he wants to wait until he gets "that feeling" and that he's not sure if we are soul mates. He doesn't understand why we can't just be the way we are forever and doesn't understand why I want to get married. I was crushed! I've been planning my dream wedding since I was 8 years old. It's not something that I'm willing to give up, although, I will wait until we're both ready. He doesn't think we're soul mates yet and wants to wait until that feeling hits him, but isn't it unlikely for that to happen at this point? We've been living together and have had a family for years. Should I wait and hope this feeling happens for him or should I leave him and hope that I can find someone else to share my dream? Thank you for any advice, Lisa Link to post Share on other sites
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