thunderhawk862002 Posted June 13, 2006 Share Posted June 13, 2006 I'll try to keep things short and sweet plus it's my first post. I was about 16/17 at the time i had my first girlfriend. It was great while it lasted but then I challenged her mother and her mom cut me off from her. Which is pretty easy to do since i'm 65 miles away. We tried to keep it together for a little longer, we lasted another two months till I wanted a short separation till things blew over. About 8 months later I contacted her and she told me she loved me before but wasn't in love with me and she had a new boyfriend. And then it was back to no contact for about 2 years. This was in the spring of 04. Then in January of this year I decided to add her to facebook and we had a little conversation on the internet for about an hour and then back to no contact. So I was checking facebook the other day(June 06) and I noticed she was no longer in a relationship. I didn't let it phase me for a little. Then about two weeks later I couldn't get her off of my mind. So I decided to message her on facebook and then on aim. However she only initiated the conversation once in about 8 times of talking some of the convos were long some short. So I talk to her online now I usually wait 10 minutes to talk to her or sometimes I don't because I'm not paying attention and it's too late. Which means she didn't message me. I'm not letting it phase me too much, i'm trying to get in better shape and still be busy. What steps should I work on to get back with her? Should I ask her out to eat or the movies in a month just to see each other again? Any advice is appreciated. Link to post Share on other sites
bendit Posted June 13, 2006 Share Posted June 13, 2006 don't go backwards. move forwards. you've had a hard time letting go. LET GO. there are many people in the world. find a new one. regards Link to post Share on other sites
Author thunderhawk862002 Posted June 14, 2006 Author Share Posted June 14, 2006 Thanks for your input bendit. But I did move on I've dated 3 other women, gone on a couple other dates, got back with one and then broke up again. I know I could and probably should move on, but if a chance presents itself I can't ignore it. A lot of people on this board have lost hope. Second chances do happen I did it once myself and the girl hated my guts. In one of the other relationships i did everything wrong and we still started dating. So what I'm looking for is suggestions on to how to handle this opportunity. Like when to take it up a step. Link to post Share on other sites
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