mystified Posted June 13, 2006 Share Posted June 13, 2006 ug. Question about men and their tactics.... Because now a bit confused as to what is going on, and especially since reading about men with friends that are girls...and men who are players..... this man friend who wishes to pursue something with girl..she thinks??? FACTS: He makes comments about liking her, setting up recreational activities with her, when he goes away for business trips he always brings these little trinkets back for her, ie stuffed animals, key chains, and the like. He makes music CD'S for her. He is very touchy feely around her, says these nice things about her....which she laughs off. Doesnt have a GF (that she knows of) Problem is, is he trying to get inside of her panties, or if this is player tactics, or if he is just friendly and expressing his friendship.... Which is it? Link to post Share on other sites
TUDOR Posted June 13, 2006 Share Posted June 13, 2006 Not sure what the problem is here. He seems to like her and is pursuing her. And it sounds like he is being thoughtful in his pursuit with gifts and tokens of appreciation. And of course getting in her panties is all part of it. Not many guys date or pursue a woman with that not part of the objective at some point whether it is date 1, 3 or 15. Link to post Share on other sites
Author mystified Posted June 13, 2006 Author Share Posted June 13, 2006 yes, but is this all a part of playing her and stringing her along to see if he can get panty access or is it GENUINE INTEREST in her (not just her panties)??????? what I mean to say is this: Does he really like her? Link to post Share on other sites
TUDOR Posted June 13, 2006 Share Posted June 13, 2006 yes, but is this all a part of playing her and stringing her along to see if he can get panty access or is it GENUINE INTEREST in her (not just her panties)??????? what I mean to say is this: Does he really like her? That is up to your friend to decide. Its up to her to feel out the situation and see where is head is at by both reading his actions and communicating with him. When in doubt, ask what his intentions are. Why play the guessing game when you can just ask? Either way how do you fit into this picture? Link to post Share on other sites
vi_pn_babe25 Posted June 13, 2006 Share Posted June 13, 2006 That is up to your friend to decide. Its up to her to feel out the situation and see where is head is at by both reading his actions and communicating with him. When in doubt, ask what his intentions are. Why play the guessing game when you can just ask? Either way how do you fit into this picture? Communication is definitely key. If you don't communicate it will turn into a big mess....believe me..... Link to post Share on other sites
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