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midwestern83

I have been married for 4 months now. My husband insisted on picking my enagement ring out himself, even though I really wanted to go with him. Well, he gave me the enagement ring 3 days before we got married (there were some reasons for that) Anyways, long story short. I don't really like my ring. The ring he got me cost more than other rings I had seen and liked better. I hope I'm not coming across as spoiled or anything, but I'm not really sure what to do. I wish I would have told him right away about how I felt about the ring, but I didn't and know I don't know if I should bring it up and exactly how to bring it up.

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Could you say something like you're not comfortable wearing such a valuable ring and would feel better if it were less expensive?

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May I ask why you don't like the ring? I'm thinking honesty is the way to go on this one. I don't know. Many would say you're very lucky to have a nice ring and you should just wear it as a symbol of his love for you and not as a status symbol. Others would say that this is a ring you'll be wearing for the rest of your life and you should have what is beautiful to you. I don't know.

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