sirjay Posted June 18, 2006 Posted June 18, 2006 I am not actually looking for a girl at the moment but I thought this would be a fun place to ask a question I have had in my head for years. Often, I am talking to a girl and I find her looking at my mouth a lot. Now, I have a goatee but it's not unusual in any way that I can discern. I always thought I had something stuck in my teeth or something, but never did when I checked. All this time ... have they been thinking about kissing me?! I mean, I am terrible at picking up when women are interested in me!
Pink Amulet Posted June 18, 2006 Posted June 18, 2006 If there was something in your teeth, she wouldn't look at your mouth. Sounds like there is something on the upper part of your face diverting her eyes to your mouth to avoid in embarrassment! Haha, this really is a hilarious thread!
Author sirjay Posted June 18, 2006 Author Posted June 18, 2006 Lol nope, i have perfect teeth and gorgeous eyes, apparently.
Author sirjay Posted June 18, 2006 Author Posted June 18, 2006 It came up because a woman was doing it the other day and she suddenly kissed me out of the blue. english women dont tend to be that forward, however, and would usually expect the guy to make the first move.
pricillia Posted June 18, 2006 Posted June 18, 2006 Yes if I was interested in kissing a love interest I will look at his mouth
pricillia Posted June 18, 2006 Posted June 18, 2006 It came up because a woman was doing it the other day and she suddenly kissed me out of the blue. english women dont tend to be that forward, however, and would usually expect the guy to make the first move. Did you kiss her back?
Author sirjay Posted June 25, 2006 Author Posted June 25, 2006 umm... not really. she caught me by surprise. i was in shock!
Author sirjay Posted June 25, 2006 Author Posted June 25, 2006 i cant remember really. i was pretty drunk at the time. we had just agreed a little business arrangement and rather than shake on it, i got a big wet sloppy kiss on the lips! we're still working together on this project so i kind of hope there isnt vibes next time we meet. i definitely dont want to get involved with her. it was my ex who introduced us on a work level and i want her back more than anything in the world so... !
pricillia Posted June 25, 2006 Posted June 25, 2006 oh my... well maybe it was the alcohol that did it, Just be professional when you see her the next time and I am sure that she will get the jist.
Maria33 Posted June 25, 2006 Posted June 25, 2006 I've been reading up on body language. If someone is looking at your mouth it usually means they are interested in you. Especially if you see them checking out your whole face. Usually they say you make a triangle when you look at someone you're interested in. You look at one eye, then the other eye, then down to the mouth. If they are REALLY interested in you sexually they will make the triangle bigger to include more personal areas on your body, if you know what I mean. It makes sense. If you're attracted to someone you will probably look at their lips and wonder if they will kiss you.
Author sirjay Posted June 25, 2006 Author Posted June 25, 2006 i missed out on a damn lot of opportunities for kisses then! us men are useless at this stuff, i guess!
pricillia Posted June 25, 2006 Posted June 25, 2006 sometimes we don't see what is right in front of us... but eventually we learn
Maria33 Posted June 26, 2006 Posted June 26, 2006 i missed out on a damn lot of opportunities for kisses then! us men are useless at this stuff, i guess! Here you go guys. Read this and it might give you a little edge on who's flirting with you. You can also do these things yourself to let the women know you're interested in them. Good luck on lots of kisses! http://menshealth.about.com/cs/stds/ht/howto_flirt.htm
j.carsey Posted June 26, 2006 Posted June 26, 2006 I have a friend who became very obsessive about this "reading bodylanguage" stuff. When we are sitting in a restaurant or lounge, pretty much the only thing he comments on is: look how that woman's legs are positioned, look how her hands and eyes move. He speaks to female friends of mine, and they later tell me he seems creepy because he is looking all over their bodies so intensely. When I tell them he is just curious about body language and was trying to interpret how they folded their arms or whatever, the girls say... wow this dude needs to relax and stop trying to overanalyze everything So maybe there's a lesson there I don't know. Sure there is something to body language but don't take it to excess
hyakku Posted June 26, 2006 Posted June 26, 2006 I have a friend who became very obsessive about this "reading bodylanguage" stuff. When we are sitting in a restaurant or lounge, pretty much the only thing he comments on is: look how that woman's legs are positioned, look how her hands and eyes move. He speaks to female friends of mine, and they later tell me he seems creepy because he is looking all over their bodies so intensely. When I tell them he is just curious about body language and was trying to interpret how they folded their arms or whatever, the girls say... wow this dude needs to relax and stop trying to overanalyze everything So maybe there's a lesson there I don't know. Sure there is something to body language but don't take it to excess It is said that around 93% of communication is through body language, voice tonality and inflection, etc. 7% is actual spoken language. Nonverbal signs are more important than spoken language, though if your friend wanted to analyze it he should keep it in his head, then he wouldn't look so strange. Besides, why doesn't he just learn about it then integrate it instead of having to consciously pay attention to it.
j.carsey Posted June 26, 2006 Posted June 26, 2006 Besides, why doesn't he just learn about it then integrate it instead of having to consciously pay attention to it. I think he's gay, to be honest. He spends too much time complaining about women and overanalyzing them when he should just jump right into it and introduce himself to some ladies Plus I've never actually seen him date anyone
allina Posted June 27, 2006 Posted June 27, 2006 I am not actually looking for a girl at the moment but I thought this would be a fun place to ask a question I have had in my head for years. Often, I am talking to a girl and I find her looking at my mouth a lot. Now, I have a goatee but it's not unusual in any way that I can discern. I always thought I had something stuck in my teeth or something, but never did when I checked. All this time ... have they been thinking about kissing me?! I mean, I am terrible at picking up when women are interested in me! Mmmm I LOVE a man with a nice mouth, nice teeth, great kissable lips I know that I've totally looked at a guys moth before wondering what it would feel like to kiss him and such, and I'm not very sly, so I bet they've noticed
Pink Amulet Posted June 27, 2006 Posted June 27, 2006 Yeah, me too. Check out the teeth- are they straight? Clean? Not yellow? Look at the lips? Moisturised (very important men! Invest in some lip balm).
allina Posted June 27, 2006 Posted June 27, 2006 Yeah, me too. Check out the teeth- are they straight? Clean? Not yellow? Look at the lips? Moisturised (very important men! Invest in some lip balm). Yes! So important. I'm attracted to people much more for their mind and personality than looks, but I could never be with someone that had gross, dirty, crooked teeth
Author sirjay Posted June 27, 2006 Author Posted June 27, 2006 i haf awesome teef, an i use lip'almm 'ol 'e 'oo
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