bhm300 Posted June 19, 2006 Share Posted June 19, 2006 My Fiance and I have together for three years. We have had some pretty big road blocks in our relationship, but we've always overcome them or at least learn to live with some of them. One thing that always seem to creep up on us is when she tells me I do not give enough affection. Although I feel this was true to some extent, I feel like I have gotten better in this dept. Sometimes due other life circumstances I understand I fall back to my old ways, doesn't take long for her to let me know it. We live a VERY stressful life. Barely making the bills, jobs we both loathe and certain health issues. I'm very understanding when it comes to her needs but inher eyes I seem to mostly land short. From day one she told me she demands a lot of affection, thought I could handle it, guess not. What should I do, amd I alone as far not being able to satify in this way? Help me out guys. Link to post Share on other sites
paige367 Posted June 19, 2006 Share Posted June 19, 2006 Ask her how much affection would be enough for her and remind her that you're trying and that you think you've improved. Link to post Share on other sites
Author bhm300 Posted June 19, 2006 Author Share Posted June 19, 2006 I have tried to tell her in the past that I'm trying. It seems like I'm supposed to know how much to give. She says that I only show it when I want some action. I tell her that she's wrong and point out a few times when I show affection(which I hate doing) and she says that that was just recently. Link to post Share on other sites
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