Guest Posted June 19, 2006 Share Posted June 19, 2006 Ok, this guy(who I am going to call K) and I have been talking for 3 months now. I like this guy and we both have so many things in common its not even funny. He doesn't have a car (but he's in the process of getting one) but I still wanted to talk to him because he seems interesting. The problem is that it seems like he calls me whenever he feels like it. I know that he has a child and that he has a job but still,at least take a few minutes of your time every other day to see how I'm doing but lately, it seems like he calls once every two weeks. I don't know if he wants me or is he playing games.Then one day, I called him and woman picked up and she said that he changed phone numbers and was like " he might call you I don't know".She said it in a nice way but you can tell that she had a tone to her voice that I didn't get a good vibe from. I'm a nice woman but I'm not going to sit around waiting for someone that doesn't want me. Now I stopped having feelings he didn't call me for about a week and half. Then the other day, out of no where he calls. Its like when I want him to call he doesn't but now that I'm trying to get him out of my mind he calls me. I don't understand it no I'm having mixed feelings. What do ya'll think I should do. I mean I'm still kind of angry at him but I don't know if we were meant to be together or I'm desperate. I told some of my friends about it and most of them except for 2 of them said that I should leave him. Please help a sista out. Thank you. Sorry so long Link to post Share on other sites
tearful_soul22 Posted June 23, 2006 Share Posted June 23, 2006 did you ever find out who the "other woman was who picked up the phone?" i must admit something fishy is going on, not only cause of that other person but him changing numbers and giving himself free reign to call you whenever he pleases! i think i agree with the majority of your friends you shouldn't be entertaining his calls anymore. i'm sorry but he sounds kinda weird to me and like he's just playing some sort of games with you. you should go out and enjoy your life and if he calls, them him you're tooooooo busy!! take care and be strong!! Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted June 25, 2006 Share Posted June 25, 2006 No, I didn't find out who the woman was but when I was talking to him, I told him that I called his old phone number and the person told me that he changed his phone number. She said she would tell him that I called.When I said that, he got really quiet and all of a sudden, he was like, let me call you back. That should be a sign right there and he called me because he wanted to give me his phone number but he never did. I got from dialing star 69 and looking at the caller ID. I just want to slap him but I'm going to let it go even though its hard, I'm just going to let him be. Link to post Share on other sites
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