Guest Posted June 20, 2006 Share Posted June 20, 2006 My wife thinks that I'm shallow because I treat her differently after she's gained 70 to 80 pounds. She has a weight problem and goes up and down like a teeter totter. This has happened several times during the 5 years that we've been married. She's right, in that I have a problem with obese women. Is this wrong? Sbe's 5'4 and has been up to 228. Right now she's probably about 210, but she's on a liquid diet and will probably lose down to 140. I know now that it won't last. n 6 months she'll be back to over 200. Her mother weights 319 and I suspect that my wife will weigh that much in a few years. I really want a divorce, but I feel like a heel. What should I do? There are other reasons other than the weight. For example, she has an ex-love that she's had an email relationship with for over 3 years that says that he wants to marry her (I know because I've been spying on her email). A few months ago whe posted an ad on adultfriendfinder.com asking for a couple looking for a female. About a year ago she posted an ad on yahoo personals as a female looking for a female with the comment 'looking for afternoon delight -- the men need never know'. Link to post Share on other sites
paige367 Posted June 20, 2006 Share Posted June 20, 2006 You are a heel, divorce her and let her move on to someone who can see more than the outershell and will be supportive of a weight problem. Why did you marry her in the first place. Link to post Share on other sites
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