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[Stoneangelcarrie]

Thank you for your advice I understand and will try to back off completely, but, and you knew one was coming, its going to be hard because I don't fall for people easily and for him I did, becauses he was close friends as I said before, with a good friend of mine. Actually, our mutual friend is who I usually get my guy advice from, which kind of sucks for me now, because I can't talk to him, or can I? You see I trusted him when he told me he was a good person who was loyal and apparently completely sweet. All of these things he was in the beg., but now... He has only been with one girl who really hurt him, besides some rebound chick, and he always tells me he has no trust for women. I know he has no trust for me. I believed that he would not play me like so many guys my age seem to be doing now and I turned away a bunch of other prospective guys, because he said he was not a player. Stupid, but my thoughts were how could he completely play his friends close friend? Now I'm not so sure.

[yes]

Hi again

 

I know how hard it is, believe me ...

 

but i think u'll be doing yourself a favour moving on ASAP

 

look - whatever his problem is, even if u figure out what it is, ... who cares - it got in the way of your relationship ... thank god that u'r not married to him and move on!

 

I know it's hard, but cmon - have some pride - the guy stopped calling, he doesn't wanna see u... it would be an issue of pride to me to just vanish from his sight.

 

dont talk about it with his friend. there's nothing to disucss. the more you think/talk about this problem, the deeper into it u go, and that's going in the wrong direction.

 

I can tell u this from experience cuz i've just had a crappy break up a few months ago.

 

it's very hard to stop thinking why it didnt work out, but with time, those thoughts so away. they really do. and then u meet a nice guy and u say - hey, thank god i'm free now, i can flirt with this cutie here

 

Best of luck

Thank you for your advice I understand and will try to back off completely, but, and you knew one was coming, its going to be hard because I don't fall for people easily and for him I did, becauses he was close friends as I said before, with a good friend of mine. Actually, our mutual friend is who I usually get my guy advice from, which kind of sucks for me now, because I can't talk to him, or can I? You see I trusted him when he told me he was a good person who was loyal and apparently completely sweet. All of these things he was in the beg., but now... He has only been with one girl who really hurt him, besides some rebound chick, and he always tells me he has no trust for women. I know he has no trust for me. I believed that he would not play me like so many guys my age seem to be doing now and I turned away a bunch of other prospective guys, because he said he was not a player. Stupid, but my thoughts were how could he completely play his friends close friend? Now I'm not so sure.