Pathetic

[Stoneangelcarrie]

O.K., I know I should save some face as you said, but if you cared about someone and they cut you out with no answers, you would want to find out why too. As you all said something is wrong. To be very honest I kissed another guy. I have no idea if someone he knows saw, because stupid drunk me I did it in a very busy, populated place. It was a very close friend of mine that I did have history with, but it was done out of curiosity, thats why I let him. Its going no further. My guy is the one who keeps me up at night and makes me sad.

 

P.S.

 

If you have no idea what I'm talking about, please read the other two postings I have up. Thanks!

[yes]

hey

 

especially since u kissed the other guy, it doesnt sound like u'll have trouble moving on

 

if the cause of the problem is that somebody told him - u've lost his trust, so it's tiem to move on anyway

 

i dont see any alternative to backing off, any way u put it ...

 

that's my input

 

good luck

O.K., I know I should save some face as you said, but if you cared about someone and they cut you out with no answers, you would want to find out why too. As you all said something is wrong. To be very honest I kissed another guy. I have no idea if someone he knows saw, because stupid drunk me I did it in a very busy, populated place. It was a very close friend of mine that I did have history with, but it was done out of curiosity, thats why I let him. Its going no further. My guy is the one who keeps me up at night and makes me sad. P.S. If you have no idea what I'm talking about, please read the other two postings I have up. Thanks!

[Ed]

I understand that you want him to tell you what he is feeling and why he is not contacting you. You think he owes it to you.

 

I understand that you think you deserve an explanation. I, too, think you deserve some kind of explanation. As a matter of fact, I think you deserve many things that you will never get.

 

Just because you think someone owes you something or that you deserve something, doesn't mean they will get it. Do you understand and/or agree with this concept?

 

You are driving yourself nuts. Instead of wondering and worrying why this guy is not contacting you, you should be wondering and worrying why YOU are so beset by someone who is almost totally ignoring you.

 

Quit focusing on him and what he is doing/not doing and focus on yourself. Focus on what you like and what you don't like. Focus on how to make choices that are good for you and your future.

 

If this is the way this guy handles his life and his girlfriends, decide for yourself if this is the kind of boyfriend you want. Is it? Do you want a boyfriend that won't call you for weeks? Do you want a boyfriend that clams up when there is a problem?