ronehog Posted June 21, 2006 Share Posted June 21, 2006 You can read my story at "wife blames me" Here is an update. We are seperated but wife called me over to discuss bills. she breaks down about the additional stress of having two homes to pay for. i stay strong and say it has to be this way right now. She gathers herself and goes to take a shower. She leaves her cell phone unattended. I look to see the dialed numbers and i notice a call from "trouble:) ". I check the number and lo and behold it is the ex. My wife has been baiting me into getting angry about things. i am trying to see this as one of those things so I made no comment. But I feel like she and her ex are laughing at me for wanting to stay. Should i mention it to her or play it cool. Prepare for the worse (divorce) and hope for the best (she was trying to get me upset to show I am still angry at her)? She is way to smart to put that number back in her phonebook unless it is a setup Link to post Share on other sites
2sunny Posted June 21, 2006 Share Posted June 21, 2006 To acknowledge the call doesn't change the fact that it occured.... I wouldn't say anything, I would just store it in my memory bank.... and chalk it up to not being able to trust her. You do need to get some things in order in case you don't end up with her. See an attorney, move money or assets around, etc. Also, see if you can access her phone bill online, thus bypassing the need to "look" at the phone itself... now that you should recognize the number you saw. Install a keylogger on her computer. Link to post Share on other sites
iron_m Posted June 22, 2006 Share Posted June 22, 2006 Don't mention it... just save the bullet for later (just in case) Link to post Share on other sites
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