2nd chance

[Guest]

I have this big problem and idk what to do... this girl whom I like alot idk if it is love or what.. but we met in middle school and it goes like this we like each other and we both know it. but each of us is afraid to say so. then school ends and we talk over the summer until school starts and then we loose touch until we find each other on myspace after a couple of years have pasted and we find that we still like each other and she tells me that she is single. now she tells me this straight to me on the phone. So here I am all hyper. So I say to myself is this right or is she just messing with me so I play along and we talk for a couple of more times. Then one night she calls me crying and I say why are you crying and she tells me that some guy is just ignoring her and just using her. So me being myself talk to the guy the only way I know how to a email because Idk where he is or what his number. Next day I get a call and she is mad at me for doing so. We talk to each other for a couple of more times and she tells me that she has been depressed and down and that she is going to call me later that night or the next day. and she doesn't. idk whether it is because she is busy due to her always being either at work or soccer or with her friends and she has two phones so... I called her a few times but no answer. Should I just leave her alone or she if she is alright.

[Kengne]

I have this big problem and idk what to do... this girl whom I like alot idk if it is love or what.. but we met in middle school and it goes like this we like each other and we both know it. but each of us is afraid to say so. then school ends and we talk over the summer until school starts and then we loose touch until we find each other on myspace after a couple of years have pasted and we find that we still like each other and she tells me that she is single. now she tells me this straight to me on the phone. So here I am all hyper. So I say to myself is this right or is she just messing with me so I play along and we talk for a couple of more times. Then one night she calls me crying and I say why are you crying and she tells me that some guy is just ignoring her and just using her. So me being myself talk to the guy the only way I know how to a email because Idk where he is or what his number. Next day I get a call and she is mad at me for doing so. We talk to each other for a couple of more times and she tells me that she has been depressed and down and that she is going to call me later that night or the next day. and she doesn't. idk whether it is because she is busy due to her always being either at work or soccer or with her friends and she has two phones so... I called her a few times but no answer. Should I just leave her alone or she if she is alright.

 

I think you should leave her alone... for now. No one is saying she is not interested in you, but clearly smth is going on that is taking her time & priority. Do you know if that guy who you called was her bf? Maybe after your call things messed up b/t them and that's why she's been MIA. Or maybe other stuff is happening.

 

Either ways.. you said you tried calling her a couple times and she didn't answer. I'm sure she has caller ID and knows that you called, so the ball is now in her court. Sit back... and let HER contact YOU. Won't you feel better when calls out of the blue, as opposed to being polite to call you back JUST because you called her down?

 

Just be easy.

 

K.