Anastasiya Posted June 22, 2006 Share Posted June 22, 2006 Hey. I need advice. What do you guys make of someone who claims they love you, that you are the best thing that ever happened to them, then gets mad over something silly (i didnt return his call right away, but mind you he disappears for days sometimes) and stops speaking to you and changes his number???? Link to post Share on other sites
Art_Critic Posted June 22, 2006 Share Posted June 22, 2006 What do you guys make of someone who claims they love you, that you are the best thing that ever happened to them, then gets mad over something silly (i didnt return his call right away, but mind you he disappears for days sometimes) and stops speaking to you and changes his number???? Seriously ??? Do a role reversal.. It means he doesn't want to be around you.. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Anastasiya Posted June 22, 2006 Author Share Posted June 22, 2006 I Know what it means obviously. THANKSSSSS BIG insight! Link to post Share on other sites
Art_Critic Posted June 22, 2006 Share Posted June 22, 2006 I Know what it means obviously. THANKSSSSS BIG insight! Sometimes there isn't more involved than the obvious Link to post Share on other sites
Author Anastasiya Posted June 22, 2006 Author Share Posted June 22, 2006 I know. I just don't know what I did to make someone go that far. I thought if someone has a problem with you they speak to you about it, not lead you to believe everything is perfect, then just pick at something silly and leave? At least break up with me and tell me what I did and why you don't want to be around me. It's just cruel the way he did it. Link to post Share on other sites
GB111 Posted June 22, 2006 Share Posted June 22, 2006 He's immature. Honestly it's probably best that you're finding out now rather than later. Sorry this happened, but for what it's worth the same thing happened to me. Just immaturity. Nothing more complicated. Best, GB Link to post Share on other sites
Art_Critic Posted June 22, 2006 Share Posted June 22, 2006 I know. I just don't know what I did to make someone go that far. I thought if someone has a problem with you they speak to you about it, not lead you to believe everything is perfect, then just pick at something silly and leave? At least break up with me and tell me what I did and why you don't want to be around me. It's just cruel the way he did it. My last GF did the same.. but we broke up first.. Changed her phone number.. email.. All within a real short time.. and I didn't contact her or email her for weeks after.. that was when I found out.. We never really ended it properly either.. till this day it drives me up the wall that she ended it that way.. without a true closure.. But it really doesn't matter.. what matters is that they don't want us around them anymore.. Their Loss.. entirely Link to post Share on other sites
Meliboo Posted June 22, 2006 Share Posted June 22, 2006 When people show you who they are believe them. He is showing you that he is selfish. Someone who loves you wants to be around you as much as you want to be around them. If they changed their number, even better. No need for you to remember a non-working number. Just note that he may call you back and tell you that his phone was disconnected that's why his number changed, or maybe even something similar. My advice tell him he has yours and can call you when you are available. If he asks when that is, reply when I answer my phone. Keep it moving too many guys out there want someone as beautiful as you. Always remeber he wants what you have not the other way around. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Anastasiya Posted June 22, 2006 Author Share Posted June 22, 2006 You're right. That's the closure, they didn't want to be with us. I would just rather get broken up with really. Even if you tell me you hate me or that I was whatever, I'd rather know, then be in like this abyss of the "what if it was.." Link to post Share on other sites
Art_Critic Posted June 22, 2006 Share Posted June 22, 2006 Even if you tell me you hate me or that I was whatever, I'd rather know, then be in like this abyss of the "what if it was.." I know how you feel.. I made a huge play to get her back weeks after the breakup and was shotdown.. sort of.. but never told anything other than silence..( well she did say she accepted my apology , that everything was fine between us and then I never heard from her again ) What I learned is that she did this to hurt me because I hurt her and she was an unforgiving person.. As far as I know she still is.. She was immature and not capable of giving me what I wanted.. a loving relationship that made me glow.. Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted June 22, 2006 Share Posted June 22, 2006 I can empathize with you because 21 days ago my ex-fiance of 18 months broke up with me in an email sent to me by his mother and when I tried to call him upon receiving that email the number had been changed. I haven't heard from him again and probably won't. I'm so sorry. I know how hard this is. Link to post Share on other sites
Pink Amulet Posted June 22, 2006 Share Posted June 22, 2006 There is nothing worse than being left in the dark and not knowing (this is why I became a journalist). I'm so sorry to hear this. I would just focus on yourself for a while. Don't think about him. He sounds a bit immature anyway. Link to post Share on other sites
RealBroken Posted June 23, 2006 Share Posted June 23, 2006 Do you still know where he lives? Post him a rotting fish. Link to post Share on other sites
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